"That was my man! The one I was waiting for all my life! I was happy, happy with my life once again and I don’t know what went wrong! An ugly squabble and it was all over…" – If this is your thought process right now, after you broke up with your boyfriend and you just don’t know what to do, here’s how you can get your boyfriend back and relive those blissful days that are now just memories.

The first thing that you should do immediately after your break up is to get yourself some engaging work. Wondering why? It’s because if you keep yourself busy, you don’t think about the break up more than required and then you don’t become desperate. The most important thing about getting your boyfriend back is not to show him that you are desperate.

Remember, boys want their girls to be caring and concerned but never want them to be desperate so be very careful because the line between showing that you care and that you are desperate is very thin and most girls do commit the mistake of crossing it unknowingly! Next, you should check whether you really want him back in your life or not. Here’s a simple way to verify this.

Answer these questions. 1. Every time you listen to a love song does it remind you of him? 2. Every time you watch a romantic movie, do feel like having your boyfriend by your side? 3. Whenever you go to the restaurant you had been with him the first time do you feel a void? 4. Before going to sleep at night do you feel lonely and cover your face with the pillow to hide your crying face?

If the answer to these questions are yes, then yes your love for your ex boyfriend is real and you should proceed to get him back! Now to get him back, you must make him realize that you care for him and love him like no one else can. But make sure you are very subtle.

For example, don’t call him up on his birthday and cry and nag so much that you forget to wish him! Instead, send him his favorite flowers with a small note. You could also use the line of a song you used to listen together! This will show that you care for him and miss him and cherish the days you spent with him but will not express your helplessness.

Try this out in different ways and you’ll surely be able to mould him emotionally. To enhance the process, there is another small tip. Make sure that all your common friends know that you are still in love with him and have not moved on with someone else. With all these, chances are very little that he’ll not start dating you in a couple of days and will be with you forever!