When you broke up with him, you hardly realized that life without him is going to be so terrible and dull. After your break up you have found that things have changed only for the worse and this is surely not what you had wanted. So you must have decided to get him back in your life but it is not unnatural that you would be confused about exactly what you should or shouldn’t do to get your ex boy friend back after breakup. Here we shall help you by suggesting a few of them.

Let's start with the don’ts. First thing, stop feeling depressed. When you are upset, driven by emotion you tend to take all the wrong steps. So before you do anything else, try to be happy.

Next, never run after your boyfriend desperately or start pursuing him to come back. If you start chasing him with mails, phone calls or messages he will soon realize how desperate you are and will be afraid of being with you. He might also get irritated and begin ignoring you which is definitely not something you would want him to do.

Also, don’t try sending messages indirectly through friends. This is such a common tactic, that your boyfriend will make out your intentions instantly! Lastly, don’t sulk and feel sorry for yourself.

A brooding, depressed, crying girlfriend is the last thing a man wants for himself. So if these are the things you shouldn’t do, you must be wondering what is it that you should do to win him back! There are a lot that you need to do and the foremost and most difficult one is regaining your confidence.

Don’t have a poor opinion about yourself just because your bf left you.

Believe in yourself under all circumstances. Secondly, not chasing your e does not mean you should run away from him. Stay in touch with him so that you keep the line of communication open. This way you will make it difficult for him to forget you and will keep reminding him of the times he spent with you and the good memories that he has of the two of you being together.

Along with these you should also try doing some makeover if you had neglected your looks recently. Be the beautiful girl that your boyfriend had fallen in love with and charm him with your once commended elegance! And finally have patience! Getting your boyfriend back might take some time but you should not be restless.

Give him time and wait till he takes a step. Instead of you chasing him, let him come seeking for you! And if this doesn’t happen instantly, just keep praying that he will be coming back soon!