While it is true that not every woman overlook needy men, most of them never consider their needy guy friends as more than just friends.

Why is that? What are the signs of needy men so that we can avoid being marked as needy?

• Nervousness. Being nervous when talking to the person we like very much is common. But to men, that can do mare damage than to women. Not only because that nervousness can prevent him from approaching her, but also because it may make the girl think he is needy.

• Lack of leading quality. Take your role as a man: lead your woman in the relationship. Leadership can attract women naturally. No matter what the feminists say, realities show that most women still prefer to be lead than leading in their relationships. So, don't always ask your next-to-be girlfriend what she wants or where to date. It is your job to choose and decide. Show her that you can lead, and she will follow you happily because she will know that you are not one of those needy men that she can not rely on.

• Lack of confidence. Confidence goes hand in hand with leading capabilities in the women attraction business. Yes, confidence is one of the most important thing that every man must have for successful approach to women. But needy men hardly shows this quality. It turns off most women around them almost instantly.

• Insecurity. Insecurity is the result of lack of confidence. Where there is insecurity, there must be lack confidence behind it. And where there is lack of confidence, insecurity is always there, too. Insecurity feeling that one has often makes him over-jealous or very possessive. This attitude will be very annoying to his partner sooner or later.

• Too available. Don't always follow your girl's every request. If you have something to do today that you have planned it for days or weeks, don't cancel it just because she asks you to accompany her to a fashion show. If you do that again and again, she won't appreciate your sacrifice anymore. Instead she will just take it for granted. She will even think that your life is not good enough so that sacrificing it for her is not a big deal. Overtime, it will only devalue you in her eyes.

Those are few of the signs of needy men. Check it out with yourself. If you find yourself doing that, then stop it. Build your confidence and act accordingly: as a man who knows how to lead and to treat his woman!