Found A Great Guy? Now How Do You Keep Him Happy?

Welcome to my series of articles in which I respond to the questions that are most commonly asked about the process of finding the man of your dreams. Finding love is supposed to be simple but somehow for many of us it can turn into a complex, difficult process.

Hopefully in clearing up these misconceptions, I can save some of you months or even years of frustration and loneliness. I expect that within this series you will find an answer that can help you connect with your soulmate and allow you to begin right now living the life of your dreams.

So, let's look at Question Six: Finding a good relationship is not easy to do. How can I be sure that when I find a guy I really like that I can keep him happy so that he want to spend the rest of his life with me?

Let me begin by saying that it is not your responsibility to keep somebody else happy. In fact, it is an impossibility. True happiness comes from within us. If we don't find the happiness we want there, nobody else can give it to us.

Oh sure, other people can do things that will give us momentary happiness, but they can't possibly find enough ways to keep us happy on a long term basis. We all have a happiness level where we spend most of our time. If something wonderful happens to us we will become happier for a little while, or if some tragedy strikes our life, we will become sadder, but eventually we will return to our set point of happiness.

The best way to insure that you attract a loving relationship that will last throughout your life, is to learn the secret to being happy yourself. Love yourself, appreciate yourself, nurture qualities in yourself that make you joyful and a joy to be with, be strong and independent and learn to see and appreciate the best in others.

When you are able to accomplish this, you will attract a man who has similar qualities. He will come to you, whole and happy, and will add to your life without needing or demanding anything from you. That's how you will know that you have found your soulmate.

If you'd like to learn more about this, you can go to my website where you can download the videos in this series. You can also download, free of charge, another ten videos in which I reveal the reasons why love can be so difficult to find.