As you enjoy the moment spending time with the woman you’ve come to love, everything seems to be going so well, so perfect, suddenly, she slap you in the face. What the …..? Having been caught off guard, you start to wonder what you did wrong. You’d have to ask. You’ve just added insult–to–injury.

This is one of the many innocent mistakes men make. So, how do we know what women want and how do we deal with it? When you’re in a fancy restaurant with your date or having a meal at a local diner, don’t gorge your food, no matter how famished you feel.

Remember that she takes eating together as a form of bonding activity. What women want is to spend time with you. So don’t rush through your meal, it makes her feel as if you don’t like to be there. What women want is for you to be considerate on how she feels.

Let her know you’re enjoying yourself by taking things in moderation. Pay close attention to body language. We actually throw out subtle signals if they’re interested in you. If you don’t take the bait, she would ultimately presume that you’re not interested in having sex with her. Try to observe some of these practices on what women want in the – – –art of seduction: The way she dresses up for you, touches you more often or mention her visits at the spa.

When we have problems, they’d like to vent their frustrations with their man. One common innocent mistake a man makes is that he would automatically presume that she needs advice. Wrong. In fact, she would almost feel like your giving her a lecture and not totally listen to her problems at hand.

She doesn’t just want you to solve it. What women want is your sympathy and support. So, the next time she pours out her problems to you about having a lousy day, try to keep your thoughts to yourself. Instead what women want you to say is a little something like "Sorry to hear about it, baby.

Wish I could do something that would make you feel better." When you’ve manage to hang–out with your friends and can’t give her the same amount of energy as you did with your friends, she’d feel like your using her as a recuperation companion. Make sure that you’re equally in the right frame of mind when you meet up with your girl.

Take it into account not to dress up like a slob. You’re sending a message to her that you don’t really care about the night. How hard can it be to put on an ironed shirt and wear a clean pair of jeans? Bear in mind, a sloppy look can be a major turn–off.

The secret to understand and know what women want, according to Jessica Claire is, always respond with a feeling or emotion.