When one is planning a wedding, there are many things to consider. This may seem overwhelming to the bride and groom but with precision planning, and some help from family, it can be accomplished in an orderly manner. Part of this planning is determining exactly what the wedding need is and in what order it should be done. A budget for the expenses should also be determined at this time.

Naturally, the bride's parents have a big responsibility in assisting with this planning. Sitting down with them and laying out a list of necessities and how soon they should be taken care of is very important. Once this has been determined and a schedule is laid out, things will go much smoother.

First on the list, if the date has been chosen, is being sure that the needed facilities are going to be available. Sometimes churches and reception areas are booked a year in advance. In addition, some churches require marriage counseling before they will reserve a specific date.

It should also be remembered that if a certain reception location is selected, that must be rented as soon as possible to be sure it is available. A deposit is always required when making the reservation. At this time, one should have some idea as to the colors and theme desired. Hiring a wedding coordinator is an excellent idea for planning the layout, caterer, flowers, music and other details of the wedding and the reception.

Choosing which guests to invite and selecting invitations are next on the list with RSVP's requested. When planning a dinner reception one might want to keep the list down, depending on the budget, as this can turn out to be rather costly. In addition, there is usually the expense of favors provided at each setting.

Next will come choosing the wedding dress and bridesmaids' dresses. This can be a fun time for all concerned. It is customary for the bridesmaids pay for their own ensemble. A wedding cake must be ordered and comes in many patterns, sizes and prices. This is a beautiful part of the reception and should be chosen with care. By following a plan all of one's wedding need will be taken care of and the wedding should go very smoothly and enjoyed by everyone present.