Most people who read this title will no doubt ask themselves how it is possible to get ex back with no contact. For you who never heard about it before, the "no contact" method is taking some time for yourself without contacting your ex at all.

The truth of the matter is that this is one of the most important things you must do if you ever wish to get back with your ex at all. There are several good reasons why you should do this and in the end, it will likely to yield better result than pushing yourself on your ex right away.

Understand that to react with your gut instinct can often pay dividends for us in life; even so, this isn't one of those times. You probably will need to fight very hard to resist the temptation to do what your instinct tells you.

At first, it is extremely important that you get out there and have fun with other friends. Regardless of how bad you feel, you have to drag yourself out of that slump. Carry on living your life as though the break up has not damaged you at all.

In fact, you can act as though this is the best thing that has ever happened to you. If you're feeling good on the inside, it will show and others pick up on this. Then you'll be more appealing to the opposite sex. When your ex sees you like this they will begin to contemplate if leaving you was the right thing to do.

The goal is to have fun, but you don’t want it to seem too obvious. Be natural and just go with the flow. If your ex has any sense that you're putting on a show or doing all of this for their benefit, it's quite possible that it will have a negative affect. It is probably not a bad idea to be on a harmless date or two; nothing serious, just as friends. Observing you taking pleasure in the company of other people and them enjoying your company will have your ex questioning their actions.

As well as making yourself seem more attractive to your ex, preserving your distance gives you time to think about the relationship and why it ended. It is essential that you realize what went wrong and what mistakes you made so that you don’t repeat them again and again. Inability to do this will result in the relationship collapsing a second time for sure.

Taking a step back also provides you with a cooling down time. In the early days and weeks of the initial break up you will be feeling quite raw with emotion. This may lead to you making judgements that you may not have thought through fully. What may seem like a clever thing to do at that time might not turn out to be very productive. After a couple of weeks of you keeping away from your ex, the chances are that they will be the one to make contact with you. When we as people discover that we can’t have something, it makes us want it a lot more. It may seem very basic but, it is very true.

If your ex does make the move and call you first, they might want to know about things that going on in your life now. It is very important to remain calm and act as if life is good and you are doing well. Hold yourself from asking any questions about their current relationship or your previous relationship. They might even ask you to hang out together. If this happen, accept it, but don't sound too enthusiastic about it. Once you've got at this stage, you can start the process of "re-attraction".