Breaking up is always a nasty, difficult ordeal but it doesn’t mean that you have to be downright miserable. Coping with a dramatic breakup is within your control so get over it! It can be done and here are some tips on how to go about it.

You’ve already shed buckets of tears and you have binged for practically a month now. You’ve talked to all your girlfriends or boyfriends, drank barrels of beer and let your work slide.

ENOUGH ALREADY!

Stop that downward spiral and get your act together. Your relationship may be over but your life goes on. And who knows? That break up may be the bridge to better things for you.

You probably want me to get on with it already since the last thing you need is someone giving you a detailed description of how pathetic your life has been lately. Alright, here are the ways to get over that broken heart, move on and start anew.

1. Get out there and show the world that you’re back in the market!

Of course, it doesn’t mean that you have to go for a rebound and get a replacement boyfriend or girlfriend in a span of days. It would help your trampled ego recover though when people think that you are "quite a catch".

You probably feel unattractive and unlovable due to your recent break up. Well, now’s the time to recover from it so be sure that you’re always at your best when you’re with people. Not only will it divert your attention and allow you to have fun, it will give you a major confidence boost as well.

2. Get rid of mementos – photos, gifts, and videos – everything that would remind you of him and would make you cry.

Going over those things relentlessly will do nothing for you except keep you cooped up in the past. The world is moving so for the pity’s sake get on with it!

Getting rid of those items is the physical manifestation of getting him out of your life as well.

What are you waiting for? There is a huge box waiting to be filled with items that are worthless except for its sentimental value.

3. Transform yourself.

Sure, your plane Jane self is nice but why not go for a bolder, more modern look? Change is good and hey, it wouldn’t hurt when people start seeing your funky side, right?

Getting on with your "normal" life would give more room for you to think about him and the things you used to do. When you change and transform yourself, however, you will be too preoccupied to give him or her a second thought.

4. Another thing that you should consider is to read a relationship saver e-book.

The reason is because you are in an unhealthy emotion and mood after your break up and you need the right prescription or advice from the expert that can heal your wounded heart just like you need the right medicine for your illness or disease.

The sooner you take the medicine, the sooner your broken heart will be recovered, plus you will be more knowledgeable about relationship and chances are you will be a lover that everyone would wanted, including your ex.

Breaking up is always tough but it is your choice to remain miserable or not. Don’t blame yourself or your ex anymore. Learn to let it go or learn to make yourself to be more understandable and attractive so that your ex would desperate to get you back.