Your Ex Girl, How To Get Her Back

You've broken up with your girl and you want her back. Maybe you lost her and haven't gotten her back because you just don't know how to give her what she needs. Perhaps she stopped feeling special to you, perhaps you try to impress her too much rather than being yourself, perhaps you got too macho, or clingy.

It is not your fault, your mama never told you those things, and they didn't teach them in school, in the locker room, or anywhere else. Relationship information is so important but no one tells us so we blow through many years, often with many failed relationships, just not understanding. But that is changing as you read every word of this article and begin to learn new perspectives, new ways to look at your relationships.

Yourself

If you want to get your Ex girl back you must be yourself, the person she fell in love with. Don't seek to impress, seek to be natural. Don't act either macho or follow her around like a puppy. These are both exactly the wrong thing to do. After a break up you need to allow some space. When you do find yourselves in the same place at the same time she can begin to remember the person she fell in love with. Be your own honest self, be upbeat and encouraging.

Space

You've got to let her realize that she misses you. You've got to give her time to forget the anger and remember the good things. This happens, over time memories become idealized as we remember the good times.

Slow

Go easy with this thing and don't obsess. Work on yourself during this time. All of us need to change something in our lives. Just do it, do the things you need to do to build yourself into a better person. There is no better time than now. So move slowly ahead and come out of this thing with a better you even if your ex girl does not come back.

Opportunity

If you heed the points above it is very likely that you're ex girl friend will begin to warm towards you, continue to move carefully, slowly because this time is critical. One stupid remark or action can blow the opportunity that you have completely out of the water. Do not pester or cling to them but show respect and that you care. Be the person you were born to be without putting on airs.