The movies make it look so easy, don’t they? The truth is, you have to build some solid basis first. If you don’t know how to get a girl to kiss you, it can be a little tough to get everything set just right. Here are a few steps that you should do to make her comfortable with your lips on hers:

1. Initiate Contact

Before you place a big juicy one in the middle of her face, you have to initiate contact. If you work your way up to it, it will be simple and natural (which is just what it ought to be). The best way to make it natural is to start touching her long before you go in for the kill. Subtlely touch her arm or brush up against her when you’re walking. If you’re sitting next to her, let your leg rest against hers. The more physical contact there is before the first kiss, the simpler it will be. Touching her gets your foot in the front door and establishes contact. Try to be easy with it - no groping or she’ll be gone faster than you can say "creep."

2. Lean In For It

When you’re ready, lean in for the kiss. When you get closer to her, you’ll know 100% whether the time is right by her body language and how she reacts. If you lean in and she begins to lean ahead ready for it, you are ready to go. If she doesn’t react, you might have to wait a little longer. If she shrinks away in horror, you forgot to apply deodorant today! Simply look into her body language; if she look’s ready, you have it.

3. Do not Stop There!

Once you move in and the kiss will almost certainly happen, don’t lose confidence. A lot of men do that. They are on the approach and all of a sudden something stops them. It might be lack of confidence or doubt about where to go next. When you start leaning in and her lips are pursed and ready, go for it and don’t let anything stop you. If it feels right, keep it going and allow it to lead you anywhere it wants to.

Check Your Hygiene

We have covered the way to get the first kiss, but there is an important factor to think about. More often than not, guys do not pay ample attention to hygiene, and it is a definite kiss killer. Some girls like rough messy guys but most don’t. The truth is, girls overwhelmingly like guys who pay close attention to their looks and smells. Ensure that your lips are not dry and chapped, and keep your breath smelling good. In addition to your mouth’s hygiene, ensure that you and your clothes smell great. After all, you’re going to be getting very close to each other.

Securing the first kiss always need a tremendous amount of confidence. You’ve got to strike while the iron’s hot, and the key to doing this is to read her body language. Make sure you see that she's ready and she wants the kiss as much as you do. A kiss that’s timed badly can ruin your chances of getting another one. Keep in mind these 3: confidence, continuous physical contact, and realize when the time is right. That way, you'll have the kiss, and a lot more after that.