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In a perfect world, each moment of a relationship would be like that weak-kneed romantic scene in The Notebook when Noah and Allie finally get together. So why is this only a fairy tale? Why can't we have that so-in-love, gushy love? That same routine of the day-in and day-out leaves the spark in the closet. Here are some scenarios to jump start your daily grind into something sultry and keeping it sexy!

1. And the secret word is... Pick a word that's likely to come up occasionally in conversation (facebook, shower, hot chocolate as an example) and agree that every time someone uses it, you have to touch - anything from a kiss to a lingering thigh stroke under the table. So, go ahead, keep "facebooking"!

2. Get Swept Off Your Feet. Make your after dinner drink into your second wind and shake your hips! Stream your favorite music in your living room and let it loose. Sharing an intimate slow dance or grooving to a hip-hop tune turns it into a memorable evening.

3. Boring night of TV turns into massage-fest. When you're both chilling out in front of the tube, heat things up with some hands-on action.

4. Flash Him. When no one's looking, give your guy a sneak peek in public. Granted, it's not exactly violins-in-the-background romantic, but it's certainly guaranteed to send his heart (and pulse) soaring.

Whether your relationship is still new or you've been together a long time, it's never too late to start incorporating romantic "traditions" in your daily routine. Something as simple as bringing your partner his/her first cup of coffee in the morning or allocating time at the start of each evening to share the events of your respective days can be the emotional "glue" that keeps couples close. Check out http://bellarelationships.com

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