If you like a girl in romantic way, you naturally want her to return the feeling. However, things don’t always work smoothly, especially if she just thinks of you as a friend or doesn’t even know that you’re exist! Actually, it is not something to be stressed about. You can attract her naturally and win her heart by doing several simple things:

1. Get to know her

You can’t date a girl that doesn’t have any idea that you’re exist; so if you're in this kind of situation, the first step will be introducing yourself to her. Do not think about making a fabulous first impression or such things; just have her to know your name is already an excellent start. Use your friends, work with her friends, or use any kind of situational circumstance to create an opportunity to introduce yourself to her.

Do some research about her activities and interests. That way, when you "accidentally" bump into her, you already got something to discuss.

2. Become a good listener

There's one thing that makes it hard for guys to be a good listener: we have strong habit to fix problems! At some point when a girl is comfortable enough to share her stories with you, you need to SHUT UP and pay attention. It may be a silly story or it might be problems that can be solved quickly with our "men’s logic", yet hold yourself from judging her or bursting a stream of your "clever solutions".

Yes, you might feel the urge to cut her stories and tell her "the correct thing to do", but you must fight that temptation. Usually, girls are merely looking for someone to talk about about their days and issues. If you are able to keep listening until she concludes her stories, you already 1 step ahead from all of those other men.

3. Flirt and tease

If you can do tips #2 successfully, you already something among all the other guys, but that alone is not enough to build romantic sparks; you need to tease and flirt with her from time to time. Flirting and teasing in regular basis will show her that you're attracted to her in romantic way and you can virtually read her feeling from the way she response to your teasing.

Look closely at her way of living, habits, preferred accessories, hairstyle, and so on and use them in the conversation to show her that you know her good enough. Certainly, use them when you’re teasing her too.

4. Close the deal

Don’t be in the "special" friend area for too much time. Observe the signs. If she displays interest, close take action and move into a romantic relationship. If she isn’t displaying any interest or if you're uncertain about how she feels about you, look for a good time and say it anyway. Indeed, you could have an unpleasant rejection, but it still much better than stepping back and wondering about her real feeling for the next 5 years. Furthermore, there's always a possibility that she actually wants you too; you possibly just missed the signals.

And those are 4 steps to get a girl to like you. Point #3 and #4 are especially important, so make sure you pay attention to them in your every action. Also, don’t act needy and clingy around her. Never seek for her approval and hold strongly to your beliefs. Those are the quality of a real man that will win any girl he wants.