If you’ve been around attractive women for a while (and try to attract them), you know that your body language plays a huge part in the outcome. You can prepare everything beforehand: clothes, deodorant, pick-up lines, and so on, but your body language can betray you by showing them what you really feel. These emotional states that being conveyed can be very ugly: nervousness, insecurity, and so on. Here are several tips in how to manage your body language to attract women:

How you move

Show them that you have a perfect control over everything in your life. You don’t have any reason to rush in doing something. You move on your own pace and perfectly okay with it. Furthermore, doing everything slowly can keep you from making stupid mistakes such as dropping your beverage or tripping over something on the ground.

The way you place your body

Spread your arms and legs. Show them that you’re not afraid to fill up space. Folding your arms and slumping over are symptoms of insecurity. Don't let them see this in you.

The way you talk

Again, pace yourself works best here. You should talk calmly with clear voice. Ensure that the other party understands what you imply. Don't speak too quickly or mumbling before her as those are symptoms of low self-esteem. Whenever you show signs of insecurity around her, you’ve blown up your chances. Insecurity shows that you think you’re beneath her and women don’t find guys with lower social status desirable.

Your facial expression

Should you approach a beautiful young woman with broaden eyes, clenched jaw, and sweat over your temple, what would she thinks? I think it will be "Who is this weird person?". Keep your facial muscle relaxed. Check this on a mirror if you must.

Watch your shoulder

When we’re restless or worried, often we'll elevate our shoulders. It’s unintentionally and we don’t even realize it. You should learn to get rid of all signs and symptoms of nervousness on your body and shoulders are one of the most obvious signs. Make an effort to be aware of it and keep them relaxed.

It might seem that these entire things regarding body language are about faking your self-confidence around women. You may think that people are studying these signs of self-confidence to the smallest details to be able to put on a charade: acting all confident around women while they in reality don’t.

Actually, it's not. As your thoughts can affect your action, your action can also affect how you feel. How can you feel confident if you walk with your eyes down while dragging your feet? You can’t. On the other hand, if you walk with a spring in your step, you’ll feel more upbeat.

The bottom line is you have to demonstrate your alpha male quality through both of body language and mindset. The two of them affect each other, thus you can start with either one of them; it doesn't really matter. Starting with being conscious about your body language to attract women is already a good start and in turn, it will affect your mindset too.