Many times men will focus on the things that women want to see when trying to impress their date, girlfriend, or wife. They think they are doing all the right things but the still end up turning off their love interest and don’t know why. The truth is there are many things that men do that women find unattractive and those things can trump any man’s attractive qualities very quickly.

One of the biggest things that men do is avoid communication with a woman. Why is this unattractive to a woman? Because women like to talk! They express themselves through communication and they feel good about their relationships with a healthy dose of communication. A man who never has anything to say to a woman becomes less appealing in her mind very quickly. So don't answer with one word and don't avoid telling woman what you really think because you are just hurting your image they have of you and causing them to start to lose their attraction to you.

Another common thing men do is focus on the sexual aspect of her too much. He may start to make her feel like a piece of meat more than a woman and ironically this makes her feel less attractive because of where his focus is, and therefore he becomes less attractive in her mind for making her feel bad! A woman needs to be validated as a person who is attractive, as well as a body who is attractive.

Another thing that men tend to do is not listen, and that is extremely unattractive. I’m not talking about sitting there and nodding yes, or no, I’m talking about remembering things that she has said that are important to her. This could be certain occasions that she wants you to remember or even as simple as her favorite color. If you are a guy who doesn’t put in the effort to remember things that she finds important then you are literally repelling women from being attracted to you!

Another common things men do is focusing on their career or activities in life more than a woman. Life is a balancing act and you have to be able to give a woman just as much attention as you do to things that you are doing in your life.

A lot of men think that they are spending enough time with their new love interest or current relationship but they are actually spending 90 of their time with her. This makes her feel 10% important to the man and his life, and she quickly starts to find him and his relationship skills unappealing.