It's only natural that you want to be the alpha male that women all want to be with. At some point in time, we all want to be this kind of guy. The problem is, along the way, we learn to think about attraction and seduction in a way that limits our ability to be that kind of guy. We learn that we have to be the nice guy that we see in movies. And you know what?

;The nice guy hardly ever gets the girl!

;Of course, you don't want to go the complete opposite route and be a total jerk to women, either. Instead, you have to find a balance, and be nice enough that you are not a complete jerk, but bad enough that you are not a push over, either.

;Here are some tips on how to attract and seduce woman and make women lust after YOU:

;1. When you see a woman that you want to get to know, make your approach. The nice guy loses out partly because he does not even play the game. You cannot expect to make women lust after you, if you appear to be afraid to approach a woman. Walking on egg shells is no way to live, and it's not going to make a woman want you.

;2. Lace the conversation with sexual undertones. With most women, you do not want to be too overt when talking about sex. Instead, being a little more subtle and using a little sexual undertone here and there can be much more effective. Just do not be afraid that you are going to offend a woman by using sex as a conversation piece. That is the inner nice guy sabotaging you. Let the bad boy out and make her think about sex when she is talking to YOU.

;3. Escalate attraction beyond conversation. Conversation can be a great way to start the attraction with a woman, but if you ever want it to lead to seduction, then you have to escalate beyond just talking to a woman. You have to physically flirt with a woman if you want to fill her with desire and lust for YOU.