You want to be back with your ex girlfriend. Sometimes, it seems like it is the only thing that you can think about. Your friends tell you that you need to just find another girl, but the more time goes on, the more you know that she is the one that you want to be with. There is only one problem. You are out of ideas on what you should be doing to try and win her back.

When it feels as though you have tried everything that you can think of, and you still cannot seem to win back your ex girlfriend, that can be a trying time for any guy. It almost seems hopeless and impossible, but it does not have to be. There are some tips that you can use that work like magic to get her back.

Here's how to get your girlfriend back FAST:

1. You need to be incredibly motivated to get her back.

This is no time for you to sit around moping and all depressed about the fact that she broke up with you. This is time for you to take action, and be incredibly motivated to get her back in your life. Just think of how good it will feel when you can kiss her lips again, when you can go to bed with her again, and when you hear her voice on the phone telling you that she loves you again. That should be more than enough to keep you motivated to get your girlfriend back.

2. You need to ignore the nay sayers that tell you that you cannot win her back.

I can bet that most of the people that would be inclined to tell you that it is impossible have had the experience of trying to get back an ex and it did not work out well for them. Well, that does not mean that you are going to have to suffer the same results. Sure, they may mean well, and they may be trying to protect you from disappointment, but you need to tune them out because at the end of the day-- you are the one that has to live with the desire to win her back.

3. You need to have a plan of action to get her back fast.

If you do not have a plan of action, then all you are going to end up doing is sitting around the house, listening to some soft R&ampB and wishing that things were different. When you have a proper plan of action, then you can start to take the steps that are necessary to get her back and make her want to stay with you. It CAN happen!