It's a situation that you really would not wish on anyone. You think about her all of the time, and not in any way, shape or form as just a friend. Problem is, she does not know it, or at least it does not seem like she knows it. Being in love with a female friend is not an easy position to be stuck in, and when you just cannot take it anymore, you have to admit that you need to find a way to make her fall for you or move on.

;What happens to most guys is, they just don't want to risk losing the "dream" of her. It's not that they don't want to lose her, as much as they don't want to lose the hope and the possibility that one day she will finally feel the same way. I've known guys that were friends with a woman for ten years, and nothing changed, and they stayed in love with her the whole time. Ten years! You do not want to stay stuck on the same woman for ten years, do you?

;Here are some tips that you can use to make your female friend become your lover:

;1. There has to be a time buffer between you and her.

;What I mean by this is, in order for you to change the way that she feels about you, there has to be some time where you transition from being her friend to being someone who wants more. And to do that effectively, you need to take some time away from her. As good as it might feel to be around her all of the time, if you don't take that time away, it's going to be tough to make her change the way that she sees you.

;2. You need to work a little on the way that you act around women.

;During your little time away from her, you want to work on flirting with women a little more, getting used to being around women that you are attracted to without going straight into friend mode. The good thing about this is, since you are not going to be attached to any woman that you flirt with during this time, you can kind of experiment with what works and what doesn't work. That way, when you start to woo your female friend, you will know what to do and what to stay away from.

;3. Call her up to hang out and show off the "new" you.

;After spending some time away from her and polishing up your game so that you know how to flirt with a woman so that she responds the way you want her to, call up your female friend and get her to hang out. Don't ask her on a date, because she will probably think that is weird. She has to see the new you, and she has to start feeling different, and that will only happen if you can get her alone with you. Once you do, start flirting with her, and whatever you do, do NOT go back to buckling and doing whatever she wants and being that kind of guy friend that never gets anywhere with a woman.