There are probably lots of questions that are floating around in your head right now. After all, it's not everyday that you find yourself broken up with your girlfriend and trying to find a solution to getting back with her. No one ever tells you what the things are that you need to do if you want to get her back, do they? No, you are expected to just kind of figure it out on your own, or you are just expected to move on and find a way to get over her and move on to the next woman.

;What if you don't want to move on, what if you just want to get your girlfriend back? Even though most people will probably tell you that it is next to impossible to get back an ex girlfriend, most people don't have a clue. See, most people already have had the bitter experience of wanting to get someone back, only to find that they cannot make it happen. So, when they advise you to just move on, it has a lot to do with their own disappointment.

;Here are 3 questions that need to be answered before you can really go about getting back your ex girlfriend:

;1) Are you ready to deal with the inevitable games that your ex girlfriend is going to play with you?

;Whether she does it consciously or not, you can expect that your ex girlfriend will play some games with you. Most of the time, it just has to do with the fact that she is trying to test you, to see what you are really made of and to see if you are really serious about getting her back. This can end up making some guys a little uneasy and nervous and when that happens, they end up blowing any chance that they may have had of getting her back. You have to be ready to handle those games if you want to win her back.

;2) Are you ready to improve your life to win her back?

;Self improvement is one of those topics that gets a lot of interest and a lot of skeptical rolls of the eyes. Improving your life is not about just adopting some kind of new age philosophy. You want to show your ex girlfriend that you are really ready to live out your dreams, and that is a good thing, because women are attracted to guys who live their lives like that. So, anything that you may have been putting off, don't. Get that new job, go back to school, lose weight and get in shape. Improve yourself and you will become more attractive to your ex girlfriend.

;3) Are you willing to accept some of the responsibility for the way that the relationship ended?

;No relationship is a one way street. Even if you feel as though you really did not do anything wrong, or that maybe your ex girlfriend was more to blame for the breakup, you want to assume some of the responsibility. Not only does this show her that you are a mature person, which is good, it also takes away some of that tension and uneasiness that might be there between the two of you.