It's one of the hardest things that a man can do when it comes to dating and relationships. Trying to get back an ex girlfriend that he still has feelings for, a woman he wants to be with. If you are stuck in that kind of a situation right now, pay attention. You might think that it's almost impossible to get that second chance with your ex girlfriend that you crave, but it does not have to be. More often than not, the only 'thing' preventing you from getting back with her is... You!

Here's what might be preventing you from getting back with her:

1. You are giving her way too much attention AFTER the breakup.

It's a very peculiar thing how a man will suddenly give a woman more attention after they have broken up than when they were together, but it happens way too often. Here's the problem with doing this: She gets annoyed and almost resents the fact that now you want to spend so much time and attention on her. She thinks to herself, " why didn't he act this way before?" If you are going to get her back, you have to be careful that you don't give her too much attention after breaking up with her.

2. You are suddenly acting like a whipped little puppy dog in front of her.

This is a really common reaction that men have after breaking up. Suddenly, whenever they talk to her or get around her, they act like a whipped little puppy dog. That is NOT a good thing, as it makes you appear less manly, less attractive, and sets you up in a way to be taken advantage of. Do not think that by acting like you are whipped by her she is going to suddenly throw her arms around you and take you back. It won't happen like that.

3. You are stuck in a position where you don't know what the first move to make is, so you do nothing.

No matter how much you may want to have her back in your life, if you don't even know what the first move you should make is, you have to admit that you are stuck. Look, she is not just going to show up on your doorstep one night because you want her back so badly, you have to actually do something to make her see that you are the guy she should be with. Only then are you going to get that second chance with her that you crave.