Touching a woman properly is one of the best ways to turn her on. This is because women love to be touched and caressed. If not given enough physical contact outside the bedroom, women can feel neglected and devalued. Women link many feelings of sexuality, love and trust with the sensations that are aroused in them when a man puts his hands on her. Touching can make her feel both sexually excited and safe at the same time. It can also make her body release certain chemicals into her blood that make her feel more attraction to and more comfortable with the man that she is with.

The sensation from touching a girl works in both ways. She gets the pleasure of feeling your hands on her skin and you get the pleasure of feeling her skin with your hands. When you are both really in tune with that exchange of pleasure, it can be absolutely awesome.

So, what is the best way to touch a woman?

I am going to talk about touching in a romantic context, whether it is on a first date or with your wife of 20 years. I am not going to talk about directly sexual touching.

The following are a few simple and effective ways you can try out to touching her and getting her powerfully aroused

(1) Look into her eyes

This seems so simple, but it is much more powerful than it sounds. When you are putting your hand on her, whether you are caressing or squeezing or petting or holding or any other form of touching, you look into her eyes while you are doing it. You will find that even if you hold eye contact with a woman and she looks down for a moment, she will be drawn back into your gaze. This will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch. She will feel it deeply in her body.

(2) Touching her hair

You brush the loose hair out of her face. This simple gesture shows that you are considerate of her. When she feels valued by your physical attention she will get emotionally closer to you. For girls with straight hair, you can let your fingers run through it. If she has curly hair, just pet her will do so that you do not get stuck and start yanking on her knots. You can also use the locks of her hair to tickle her face, neck and to other reachable areas of her body. Slowly and lightly caressing her using the ends of her hair will both relax and entice her. Pull her hair gently backward when you kiss her neck.

(3) Get creative in your touching

You can find some household objects such as feather and silk to stroke her. It is not about what you use but how you use that can drive her wild. It could be the cork from the bottle of wine. You can also try running ice-cube gently over her body. Especially on hot days, the cooling effect can be quite arousing to her. Whatever you use, if you can gently run it over her body, it can become a very effective erotic tool.

(4) Touching her as lightly as you can

You can use the very tips of your fingers and run them very, very lightly on her body, so that it almost feels like tickling. Touching her lightly will get her nerve endings standing on end. You do not need to restrict yourself to finger tips, you can also cup her with your hand and stroke gently with your thumb or even use your lips for some extra intimacy.

(5) Simple hand holding

This is one of the greatest ways to build intimacy. Whether you are walking with her in the park or mall or anywhere along the street, sitting in front of the TV, sitting side by side or face to face at a table, you simply grab her hand just to hold it. You can also kiss her fingers or stroke her palms. This will make her feel warm and comforted.

(6) Hugging

Putting your arm around her shoulder or wrapping her in a warm embrace will make her feel secure. When she chats with you about her day, you just hold her firmly, on her shoulder, the back of her neck, her back, her thigh, her arm or hand, or anywhere. If you can do this correctly, she will be able to feel the tenderness and protectiveness behind your touch.

(7) Kissing

Unexpected kissing is the best. You kiss her because you want to and not for the sake of humoring her. You softly kiss and tug on her upper lip. You press your lips against the rims of her ears, ear lobes, cheeks, palms, neck, etc.

How you go about stimulating your partner through touching, communicating with her, whether by paying attention to her responses or getting her feedback, is the key. Remember to add eye contact to all forms of touching and most important to do it with feelings. Women have this sharp sense of intuition and you cannot fool them. If she can feel the love behind your touch, her body will be able to respond accordingly.

The more you bond with her physically outside the bedroom, the more she is going to bond with you emotionally and sexually. Whether she is your girlfriend, wife or lover, you should do it more often from now onwards.