Giving advice through an article without knowing who the reader is, more about the details of your particular situation as well as your partner's view on things is hard. However I will try to give some general advice throughout this article that can help you focus on Christian moral values.

1. Remember that you also have a relationship with God. By taking care of your relationship with God, all of your other relationships will be influenced as well.

2. Discuss your relationship with God and ask Him for guidance and wisdom

3. Ask other mature Christians you know and that have been married for a long time for advice.

4. Stick to your Christian values. Don't do something just to be cool enough in someone else's eyes or to make someone else satisfied.

5. Talk to your pastor, elders or members of your church that have many years of experience that you trust and can ask for advice and tips from. Their many years of experience with having God in their lives has often taught them to speak from great wisdom.

6. Reading general self help books and relationship advice can be of great value, but often things will be a bit different when you get them from a Christian perspective. Therefor I recommend finding some books written by other Christians to get the best advice.

7. Hang out with other Christian friends and acquaintances. Christian acquaintances can offer you a third person's opinion. Discussing your relationship issues and questions with other Christians can be very useful.

8. Pray with your partner. Pray to God for love, guidance and strength. Many couples don't realize how powerful prayer is, however research shows that couples that pray together have a bigger chance of maintaining a happy and lasting marriage.

9. Always talk about and be honest about your thoughts and feelings. Being capable of talking openly about your feelings and thoughts is an important key to a good relationship.

10. Learn to communicate effectively. Truly listen to your partner and what she or he has to tell to you. Allow your partner to talk about his/her feelings without arguing or judging them, just pay attention.

Whether you have been married for years or are in a new relationship, the relationship can get complicated. All of us have issues in our relationship that we need to deal with to grow.

By integrating some of the above Christian relationship advice you increase your chances of building a more intimate and loving relationship. Some of the advice here you may think is obvious, but in your daily life when things get busy and there don't seem to be enough time, these things are easily forgotten and you end up not praying together as often as you would wish. So, remember to take the time to make God a priority in your relationship and you will experience change in other areas of your life as well, including your relationship to your partner as well as other people.