There are of course different reason why relationships, partnerships, friendships, whatever we like to call them fall apart. One of the main reasons is a misunderstanding due to "lack of communication". So many couples fail to recognise that the simple solution is to be able to sit and discuss your concerns together calmly. This is not actually a difficult thing to do, however it escapes a lot of people.

However for the subject of this article, let's take a look at another problem.

Another reason, is over time, couples get complacent with each other and this often leaves a gap in the relationship. Where as early in the relationship, we give 110% to impressing the other, after time, this fades a way and there becomes a certain lack of interest. Dare I say this, but sometimes this leads to being bored with the situation. This is the start, where the communications starts to fail.

This of course can come from either side of the partnership. Both men and women are not unknown to stray away, however if the interest to them both is still there, this would alleviate many of the couples problems.

For your relationship to remain interesting there needs to be something always in the pipeline that is new and exciting. This can be simple things such as taking on a new hobby, surprising your partner every few days with something they are not suspecting.

Always try to look good and feel good about yourself. This in turn will give others a chance to see a great side of you, including your partner. Always try something different and avoid being predictable. Boredom starts when there is nothing new being introduced.

Always show confidence in what you are doing. If you feel confident and behave this way, you will give off a positive vibe that your partner will treasure. When you pull yourself out of bed every morning, try and look the part. Be smart and sharp, never let yourself appear lazy.

No partner likes to be bored and in a rut. This all stems from lack of change and sparking something new into the frame.