Many women go through life without using a vibrator, and many of those women also never experience an orgasm. Some women consider vibrators as a part of the more adventurous woman's bedroom, and they themselves view it as too erotic or silly to buy or use. But if they only knew how these simple toys could help them in the bedroom it may be a different story altogether. And men can help them understand just why those vibrators are so important!

I’m not saying that a vibrator can replace a man, because there is nothing that can replace the feeling of a man and his warmth, movements, and passion, but they can be good tools to help a woman figure out what she would like her man to be doing so that he can give her an orgasm!

Most women actually have their first orgasm with a vibrator. Since women know their bodies and feelings they get the best they can take the time to experiment with the vibrator and learn what feels good, and what does not feel good. And many women find that clitoral stimulation is what really hits a home run and brings them to orgasm.

If you are dating or married to a woman who has never had an orgasm then do her a favour and buy her a vibrator. It doesn’t have to be a massive vibrator with lights and bells on it. Just buy a small, straight vibrator that has different vibration settings on it. This will be enough to help her discover her pleasure buttons and what feels really good.

Most women find that clitoral stimulation is the best way to get an orgasm, so advise her that she doesn’t have to put inside of her to reap the rewards. Holding it against her clitoris will feel amazing, when she finds the right spot, and an orgasm will probably follow her effort if she sticks it out long enough.

The thing about clitoris stimulation is that it can hurt if done the wrong way. Men don’t know what feels good or not to a woman so they can over stimulate the clitoris which causes a woman pain, or they can under stimulate it which causes a woman little pleasure. There is an exact spot around the clitoris that will enjoy being stimulated and cause a great amount of pleasure for her. She will be able to find that spot by herself with a vibrator, and then she will be able to share that information with you.

You will find that once she knows how to please herself your job will be much easier. She will direct you to the spots that need stimulation, and she will tell you what else needs to be done to bring her to orgasm. It really can't get any easier for you at that point!

So if your woman has not had an orgasm and you really want to help her have one, then buy her a vibrator and watch the magic happen.