All the secrets are in the first 3 years after married. Couples who have a happy marriage , not only know the content but also actively use it in real life. We usually think this time as a happy romantic period. But in fact, There is nothing more nervous in this marriage time, which is the dangerous time. How to face and work together through this tortuous period, will determine the couple a lifetime happiness.

So, in the first 3 years after marriage -1000 days, you need to know what kind of things might happen, and these things will affect our lives. How to change later in life? If you are married, and you do not know the secret, I can say - you certainly do not happy.

The implication of married in the first 3 years

In order to protect themselves, everyone has a mask, trying to hide their true face. To others, you will put another guise. This "mask" behavior in psychological terms are: appearance of the image (persona). Appearance of the image (persona) is also in English (person), personality (personality) of the stem. Of course, it is good to live very good if no such appearance of the image, according to who you really honest to be. But unfortunately, in today's society, it is almost impossible.

Usually, the appearance of the image can make people get along more harmoniously. However, it often drugged to become a powerful control over the relationship between the role of men and women. The word that often said "love magic shield" means this. The first year of marriage, the role of the image appearance is very obvious. So in this period, most of the other's shortcomings are even been seen as his unique personality, even fascinated by this, and understanding of each error all in the name of love. Even if not satisfied ,you just laugh it off. Treat each other's family, will be particularly attentive, and this is what people call "Love me, love my dog."

However, it is regrettable that this period of romantic love did not last long. Although due to the different character of each person, there will be differences in the period. However, about the wedding, when in the second year, most of the wedding personality mask will naturally fall off, and love hormones called "dopamine" have begun to stop play effect. In this time the couple would surrender the other side on their own, starting fierce "tug of war."