If you are truly considering trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, then you have hope. I have put together five straightforward steps to be successful. Breaking up may be sad but don't stay stuck in this moment. There is a great lesson to be learned no matter whose screw up it was. Each scenario has a fix, now it's down to you to possibly put your heart to it and begin to rekindle your damaged relationship back together.

1- If you want to win your ex-girlfriend back, start by writing her touching letter. Take your time and pour your heart to her. Write how much you care about her and how much you loved the happy times together. Avoid writing anything negative, stay as positive as you can.

2- Reach out to her after a couple of days by phone. Ask her if she received your letter and how she is doing. This could make sure she knows you are still enthusiastic about being part of her life. If she doesn't answer the telephone, send her a text message and wait for her reply. She'll appreciate that at least you are trying.

3- Another vital thing you want to confirm is that you're staying away from other ladies. You don't want to get distracted if you still need to work things out with your ex-girlfriend. Continue stay targeted on your ex-girlfriend and positive. If you continue to follow these steps you're getting closer to winning her heart back.

4- Do not forget to bring up cheerful memories when you speak to your ex-girlfriend. If there's a crucial date coming up during your split send her a nice e-card relating to that special date. Let her know you are brooding about her without any reason to or send her a thinking about you card in the mail.

5- Continue to stay in contact with your ex-girlfriend. This will show her you are still inquisitive about her and would like to still work things out. If she only wants to be friends for now until you both work out each other's differences then you're at the very least on a good start. Get on her good side and let her see that you have indeed made some progress on your behalf. When she begins to see that you are making a contribution to the relationship, she'll start to re-ignite things with you also.

These five steps helped me get back with my ex-girlfriend. I didn't get results immediately, but it was all worth waiting for. Inside 2 weeks we were back together. I wish you the best!