Do you wish that you could just slap your ex and make him see sense? Doesn’t he see the huge mistake he’s making breaking up with you? Maybe another woman stole him or maybe you could have screwed up a bit. But not bad enough to get you dumped! He will see this one day, but now, he sees no sense.

Your heart is breaking and you just want to knock some logic into his brain. You ache to talk him into realizing what he did. You wish that he would just understand his mistakes,change his mind and apologize. But every day, things grow worse. He becomes more distant and angry as you try to fix and repair what happened between you two.

Men can be pretty stubborn when it comes to, well, anything! But usually after a breakup,a guy will refuse to listen to reason and common sense. No matter how many apologies you give or how many solutions, he won’t listen. He is just being stubborn.Ignore the fact that his stubbornness might be driving you crazy, and look at it this way. He is committed to what he believes and there is something about it that you can appreciate. Use his stubbornness and get him back with it. You just have to find how guys think and finding out how to get him to react the way you want.

Pretend your ex is one of the little boys in the grocery store who kick and scream and roll on the floor when they don’t get what they want. There are two choices that the parents often make. They make a scene by threatening and scaring the child into obeying them.It’s best to act maturely: just walk away. The child usually gets up later and begins to try making deals to get what he wants.

Your ex is being a little boy. He is throwing a tantrum and acting irrationally. The best thing that you can do until he calms down now is to try to ignore his childishness and continue with your life. When you ignore his behavior, you usually remove its power. Once your ex realizes that tantrums don’t have any power in the relationship he will begin to calm down.

This is a slightly crude example of how your ex is behaving and their similarities to little boys. I am sure you would agree. But the biggest similarity is that both males are driven by a testosterone fed ego and male induced behavior. You can use these to your advantage to take control and make the situation work in your favor. After you figure out how men and little boys work, it becomes easy to manipulate or control a situation.

It doesn’t matter if it is the whining kid in the grocery or your stubborn and unreasonable ex about getting back together. The emotions he felt when you two first fell in love are still there. You have to take control of the relationship and bring these emotions back to the surface before time runs out. Sometimes you may feel like giving up or that enough is enough, but with a carefully thought out plan and understanding, it is surely possible to win your ex back both quickly and easily.