If you’re wondering, "Can I get my ex girlfriend back?" then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think the relationship is completely lost. You’ll have to hope she feels the same way. If any hurt was caused during the split that you should apologize for, now’s the time to show that you're a true gentleman by apologizing. Being sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step.

Can I get back my ex girlfriend by showing my sensitive side?

Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds are tilted more and more in your favor if you do things right. Let her know, by your actions, how much you miss her and exactly how sorry you are. Just pay attention to what she does. If by displaying your sorrow you only invoke her anger—she knocks the box of chocolates into your face or something dramatic like that, for example—change your tactics until you find that something she responds to.

If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’s easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote. Take a step back, put yourself in her shoes and try to conjure up something more appealing. Buy a blank card and compose your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Give honest expression to how you feel. Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself.

It is a common complaint, shared by most women, that men aren’t thoughtful. Do you remember thoughtful at any point in your relationship? Now you might be wondering, can I get back my ex girlfriend by being thoughtful? Not necessarily, but it’s one more step toward your goal of getting her back. Every positive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Don't be expecting things to happen right away, though.

If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’ll probably doubt you're current actions. Just be patient, and continue in your efforts. Don’t appear frustrated or angry. Be thoughtful because you feel good when you make her happy, not because you’re working toward a goal.

Can I get back with my ex girlfriend by dating other women?

If the breakup was quite some time ago, and you’re still working on expressing thoughtfulness, a casual date should be harmless and might make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?

The odds are definitely against you, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you're odds will definitely improve. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, never give up.

If it appears she’s moved on, as a gentleman you should still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a nice week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.

Now, one thing more my friend, all the things I've pointed out above, are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will guide you in your heartfelt pursuit.

Frankly, that's what I did when my true love dumped me. I followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back.