You're trying to cope with this new reality of a break up and it's difficult enough, but when you see your ex boyfriend with someone else, the feelings of rejection are magnified and unbearable. You might feel like getting him back back is far and away impossible right now, especially when another woman is in the picture taking all the attention away, but all hope is not lost yet and I'll tell you why.

It's common for people to fall into the rebound relationship trap after a break up. Your ex feels this sudden shift in their day-to-day activities and subconsciously he feels he has a new void to fill. So he goes out and looks for the most desirable or available person to fill that void AND to act as a distraction mechanism.

Thing is, 90 percent of rebound relationships don't work out because they work like outsourced job positions do. You outsource or hire someone to do a quick job ONCE because they're quick and fast and you don't need to do a bunch of annoying interviews. Because it's only to fill a temporary void, the minute they start demanding more time, more attention and more energy, your ex will be kicking them out the door.

Knowing this, you can use it to your advantage. There's no need to panic and start acting vindictive towards your ex because you don't approve of them seeing someone new. Acting immature and showing your disapproval will only PUSH your ex towards their new love! On the other hand if you act indifferent, this might make your ex curious and they'll be asking questions in their head like: "She doesn't care I'm seeing someone new, she mustn't have cared to begin with."

Believe me these questions will allow your ex boyfriend to re-evaluate your relationship and think about you. Whether he's thinking good or bad thoughts, the fact that he's THINKING about you is a very good sign.

Want to know the fast track to your ex boyfriend's heart? Whether he's with someone else or not, you can make him fall in love with you and have him ditch his new love faster than you can say: Get Your Boyfriend Back Now.