The funny thing about being in a relationship is that you must always be finding new ways to keep it interesting. Your lover wants to be surprised now and again and have a little romance in their life. Simply going through the motions is not at all what romance is all about. We need passion and excitement. Knowing how to keep your mate guessing is a crucial skill in making sure that the spice is still in your relationship. Have fun in keeping your mate guessing as you have some fun. Do not be predictable, be exciting. Try a few of these techniques as you pursue them:

For the most part ruts are actually good for us in that they make efficient. And pattern recognition is important for decision making. However, habits also distance us from what we do because our mind is not engaged, When someone else points out that we "always" do something a certain way, we are amazed because we are unaware. Once we've moved beyond the adolescent and young adult experimentation phase, we tend to fall into the rut of wearing our hair a certain way, how we put on our makeup, the kind of television shows we watch, the choice of foods we eat, and the lifestyle we pursue.

Act distant and unapproachable on a date. Be someplace else so that they must grab your attention. Make them pursue you and be willing to be caught.

Women love to be surprised. Be spontaneous and surprise them at their work. When they least expect it, attack them with a big hug and kiss so that you catch them completely off guard.

Remember that the love quotes that are all around us are to inspire us and not to be a thing of judgment. Everybody wants a love that lasts like we read about in the quotes about love. However, that type of love is one that is cultivated instead of only stumbled upon.

Doing something that is out of the ordinary can make you both feel like kids again. By trying a new hair cut or a new clothes style it breaks you and your spouse out of the normal patterns can make for some interesting conversation.

Such conflicting and inconsistent behavioral traits stimulate a woman, and display your erratic and mercurial temperament. But let's not do this too frequently, or she might get the impression that you are some sort of loony that she has landed up with. Act a little mad, but not totally mad. We want them to always know that they can depend on you in life and in fun.

The main ingredient in the spice of a relationship is to mix it up and create something interesting. Acting close as well as distant, being decisive as well as vacillating, getting romantic and suddenly playing aloof, all goes to create those magical moments, we all yearn for. Learning the rhythms of your relationship will enable you to keep your mate guessing and interested. The best example that comes to my mind is a tightrope walker in a circus arena. He is extremely careful on that rope while walking, neither too fast nor too slow, because either way he falls down. It is such a thrill to know that our mate feels loved, appreciated, and attractive.

Working to make things exciting can lead to a lot of fun and romance. Do it for the excitement and do it for the fun. The best thing you can do is to just have fun."