If you think being steady and uniform in your behavior, will keep your woman happy, think again. Your lover wants to be surprised now and again and have a little romance in their life. Now that is definitely a premature signal, during your dating days, because you are truly giving the wrong signal at the wrong time. Knowing how to keep your mate guessing is a crucial skill in making sure that the spice is still in your relationship. Your mate wants to feel pursued and desirable, so have fun with it. Because normal is boring, in dating terms. Try a few of these techniques as you pursue them:

Being able to have methods in place so that life is much more effective is good for everything that we must do in our day. However, habits also distance us from what we do because our mind is not engaged, When someone else points out that we "always" do something a certain way, we are amazed because we are unaware. It is also important that our spouse does not get into a rut with us. That is why mixing things up a bit can help them see us in new and exciting lights as we strive to keep our relationship fresh.

Try taking some of the time on a date being far off mentally. Let your eyes glance away so that they notice without being borrish. The goal of this is to have them catch your attention back.

Our marriages are prone to fall into deep ruts. They range from unwavering go-to-bed-at-night and get-up-in-the-morning routines to the day of the week we go out, the restaurants we frequent, and the way we communicate (or fail to communicate) with each other. We love being around our spouse and the joy that they bring into our heart is undeniable. But we can also get a little to comfortable with them so that we don't see how special they are to us. We must continue to remember how they are so special to us.

It's good to remember that the love quotes that we all read should be an inspiration and not a judgment. Sure, all of us wants a love like that which is in the quotes about love. However, that type of love is one that is cultivated instead of only stumbled upon.

Sometimes do things that she least expects you to do. Why not be inventive by being kids for a night and just having some good old fashioned fun. Just be creative in whatever you do.

If you are able to not be too shy and make a few waves, you can really get your spouses attention and make them take notice. But let's not do this too frequently, or she might get the impression that you are some sort of loony that she has landed up with. Going a little crazy can be fun, just not all the time. So that you emerge as an otherwise dependable and trustworthy companion.

The secret behind creating magic in any dating relationship is generating a healthy blend of contradictions. Acting close as well as distant, being decisive as well as vacillating, getting romantic and suddenly playing aloof, all goes to create those magical moments, we all yearn for. Learning the moods of your mate will help you to master the times for crazy love and the times for predictable love. It is a little bit of a balancing act but something very worth while to learn. He is extremely careful on that rope while walking, neither too fast nor too slow, because either way he falls down. It is such a thrill to know that our mate feels loved, appreciated, and attractive.

Working to make things exciting can lead to a lot of fun and romance. Do it for the excitement and do it for the fun. As another ad campaign suggests, "Just do it."