Almost every woman loves oral sex. But the problem is most women do not get enough of oral sex from their lovers. A sure bet way to make a girl horny and rock her world is to give her oral sex. Giving her the most intense sensation and pleasure that correlates with oral sex will no doubt make her want you more and make her orgasm fast. Who knows this may even cause her to initiate it the next time she sees you. Read on to find out how you can make your lady’s thighs quiver with pleasure.

(1) Get her to relax

The less insecurity there is for her, the better she will response during oral sex. If either of you are worried about unpleasant odors or tastes, take a shower together beforehand. Do reassure her that you think she is sexy. When you are down between her legs, she may feel uneasy about the way she looks, whether it is the size of her thighs or the appearance of her vagina. Say and do things that compliment the way she looks, smells and tastes, while rubbing and kissing the pubic region.

(2) Get her warm up

Before you tongue a girl, you need to make sure she is relaxed and ready for you. Do not skip foreplay. You stimulate all of her other erogenous zones with your mouth or hand. You take time to cuddle, kiss, suck and nibble and let her know you are so excited to be with her. When you finally get to her vagina, tease her by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling all around the area. This technique will keep her in anticipation and get blood flowing to her ‘love canal’ making her nether region more sensitive to stimulation.

(3) Get wet

When using your hands and fingers, use your saliva to get them wet before you use your mouth on her. Once she gets turned on enough, her vagina will create lubrication of its own. Show her how much you enjoy eating her out by rubbing your cheeks against her vagina or taking some of her love juice with your fingers and spread it on your lips and face. You will turn her on with this dirty gesture. You may also use flavored lubricant, but either way, keeping her wet down there is an incredible sensation, making it one of the best oral sex techniques to use.

(4) Pay attention to her signals

Your partner will let you know what is working for her and what she does not like. To tongue a girl you have to respond properly to her movements. If she is grinding her hips and grabbing the back of your head while arching her back, you are probably on to something. Sometimes wetting a finger or two and slipping it inside her vagina can also drive her wild. You can gauge her response by testing with one finger first and if she enjoys it, you may slip another finger in, making it to two. This will give her the dual sensation of your mouth on her clitoris and penetration at the same time.

Carefully watch her physical response and make adjustments accordingly. When you notice she is getting more and more aroused, you speed up your act, and increase the intensity of your stimulation. Finally, when she is reaching her peak, you keep up with a steady and firm pace until she comes.

(5) Talk to her

If she is not very vocal in bed, or you are unable to decipher the noises she makes, ask her what she likes. It may seem like an amateur move to ask for help, but it will be of greatest pleasure to her by having her guide your hand, or your tongue to her ‘hot buttons’. By talking to your partner and finding out what she likes will help you to know how to give her the best orgasm in the shortest amount of time.

(6) Gently lick and suck the clitoris

A lot of guys make the mistake of driving straight for her clitoris, though clitoral stimulation is an important part of oral sex. This is because the clitoris is a very highly sensitive region with lots of nerve endings (more than at the penis tip). Hard licking and sucking initially on the clitoris can make her feel uncomfortable.

For a start, you gently flick it with your tongue and move onto the area around the clitoris. Come back to the clitoris every once in a while, but do not concentrate all your efforts on it. It is only when you sense she is quite close to orgasm that you can suck and lick harder on her clitoris.

(7) Venture to other areas

Not every woman is not anal stimulation, but you may be surprised what this gesture could do for your sex life. Some women like to have their anus licked, or even have a finger inserted into it. If she is into it, you can lick her anus while you are eating her out. While you are there you will be able to lick the lower part of her vagina at the same time or you can lick back and forth between the vagina and the anus. This oral sex technique can provide extra stimulation and gratifying results. Ask her if she likes it, or allow you to try it.

Just because you are going down on her does not mean that the rest of her body should be ignored. Use your hands to rub her breasts, stomach, neck and inner thigh. This will load up her senses and make her completely and utterly involved with what you are doing down there.

(8) Vary your moves

Use different patterns, pressure and motions while sucking or using your tongue. For those who are a little nervous about going down on a girl, it sometimes helps to spell out each letter with your tongue. It may sound a little odd, but this helps in two ways. First, this will increase the dexterity of your tongue. Second, this will help you to get more used to licking her for a longer period of time.

She may be partial to certain moves such as the rapid flicking of your tongue over her clitoris, long and short licks, a flat or rigid tongue, or sucking. Take your time and pay attention to the way she responds so you will be able to know which oral sex techniques work best for her. When you figure it out, keep doing it unless she seems to get bored with it, then you can try tweaking your technique or find a new one to use. You can also take oral sex to a whole new level by trying it in different positions, like with her straddling your face, from behind, or standing up. To spice things up, you can also introduce sex toys or stimulating lubricants.

You can also use food creatively to enhance her oral sex experience. Rub strawberries covered in whipped cream or honey around her private parts. You can also insert a banana and use it to stimulate her as you pull it out with your mouth.