We have to face the reality that not all marriages can last a lifetime. If you take a survey, you would learn that a large percentage of marriages end up in divorce. There are many reasons why a marriage or a couple breaks up. One reason is probably their personal differences, but one of the reasons why a lot of marriages dissolve is infidelity. Infidelity is one of the "deadliest" root causes of many broken marriages or relationships.

If you are in this kind of relationship dilemma yourself, you have to know and learn how to deal with the pain that this betrayal has caused you. It is hard to accept the things that you never imagine would happen to you or your marriage. It is hard to comprehend why it had to happen in the first place. There are a lot of questions that may be bugging you, and questions that you would find hard to understand.

In every relationship there are trials and obstacles that you and your spouse need to overcome in order to test your love, respect and loyalty to one another. But sometimes, there are trials that would destroy everything that you both build. No one can know exactly how a person would react when he/she has learned about the infidelity. Different people act and react differently with regard to this type of marital or relationship problem. Some may react to it drastically, while others may try to be calm about it and deal with the issue with a level-minded approach.

If you are a person who has this kind of marital problem, what would you do? Would you go to a friend and cry your heart out? Would you go to your mother and tell her what you are going through? Normally, the first thing that a person who was betrayed does is to seek the guidance and the support of someone whom they really trust. They would find someone who would listen to them and would not criticize. But there may be times that you would want just to be on your own and think things over. All of these may help you a bit, in the beginning. However, as the reality sinks in, the more you may feel the pain and the more you may need answers to many questions you may have. It’s possible that the only person that can help you expertly and professionally is a professional relationship coach. You have to keep in mind that you may never be happy and be able to trust again if you will not do anything to heal your current pain. This is the way where you can once again live a life that is full of trust and most importantly, LOVE.