Things Women Don’t Tell You

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  • Author Heather Clay
  • Published April 27, 2012
  • Word count 518

It is quite common knowledge and even considered part of our culture that women lie to men. They lie for various reasons, but the most important one is that women are practically trained to flatter the male ego, since a man lacking confidence can bring up a lot of suffering and misery in a relationship. However, there are some other reasons why women don’t tell men about plenty of things. When it comes to sex, the matter becomes even more complicated, because this is a sensitive issue for women and they feel too embarrassed to talk about it. Here are some things women don’t tell their men even during the most intimate moments.

Sex does not have to last for hours

You have seen it in movies, you have read it in articles printed on glossy paper. Men must have staying power, or, otherwise, it does not count. However, what most women don’t tell you is that this statement is actually overrated. While sexual intercourse must last for at least a couple of minutes to have the woman start feeling it, encounters that last more than 15 minutes can turn into a marathon that women are not very comfortable with. You must keep in mind that the vagina can only deliver that much lubrication and extending intercourse can really turn off a woman instead of pleasing her. Of course, women don’t tell they do not like it when you go at it for half an hour or so, because they think they will hurt your feelings. Next time, though, do not believe just everything you see in adult movies. They just make it look that way.

Rough sex is not a turn on for women

Wild sex can be a great turn on for your partner, but what women don’t tell men is that they do not like when they are roughly handled, no matter how incredible their arousal is. Pinching her nipples, too much friction, squeezing her buttocks too hard, can take a lot off her arousal. The thing women don’t tell is that their bodies are really sensitive and they cannot be thrown in the back of the truck and taken roughly. Be a considerate lover and do not apply more force than needed; maybe women don’t tell you they do not like it, but they will be unhappy about it.

Orgasms are not everything

Having your woman reach her climax seems to be your primary goal whenever you take your lover to bed. However, stressing too much on the important of orgasms can be a huge mistake. Women don’t tell you, but they are more into making love than having orgasm after orgasm after orgasm. Just to make things clear for you, they like to masturbate, even if they do not orgasm, and the same truth is valid when they have sex with you, as well.

Women don’t tell you everything. Learn to live with it, but pay attention to the signs, and do not hesitate to ask them once in a while what they really like.

Heather Clay is a blog writer who shares Women Secrets and reveals things women don't tell men. To learn more about her, visit [http://WomenHaveSecrets.com](http://womenhavesecrets.com/)

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