The Kathleen Norton Experiment

OK, here's my story. I started going out with a woman six years ago. (We'll call her Kathleen) She found me on POF (Plenty of Fish) her profile was a silhouette, meaning she did not have a picture of herself online. So, she sent me pictures of her. But I was married at the time.

My wife of 30 years (we got married young) was from Denmark, We'll call her Suzanne, a red head. But the last 3 years of our marriage was marred in (my fault, I blame me for this) an affair on my end. (Only once but that will take the trust out of a relationship) so, the last three years of our marriage she would go out on Friday night and come back Saturday morning Then go out Saturday night and come back Sunday morning.

She would walk through the door in the morning and I would say "WTF? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL NIGHT?" But I realize that you can't tell someone that is over the age of 18 what do, say, think or feel, they are a legal adult. I don't hit women, in fact I have never hit a woman.

Our kids were subject to this display for three years. Maybe she was getting even, I don't know. I just knew that if she wanted to get even she had done so 10 fold. The only reason she left our house was when I confronted her one morning in front of the kids and said "You are not just hurting me, you are hurting them as well and I pointed to the kids, and teaching them how to follow in your shoes" That she understood! She promptly moved out the next day. She was a good woman and I will always love her.

She filed for separation that year and finally a divorce, two years ago. I remember that she moved in with my mother We'll call her Diane. But my mother doesn't put up with crap and told her she can live there if she gets a job. She did for two weeks. She she didn't work again and after 3 months of loafing around Diane threw her out. From there she moved in with my oldest daughter and my son. My youngest daughter still lived with me. My oldest daughter moved out to her own apartment leaving the two bedroom apartment to my ex-wife and my son.

I hold nothing against my ex-wife. Suzanne gave me three beautiful, gorgeous kids that I love to death and nearly 30 years of great sex, love, healing and someone in my corner. Even if I don't see kids as much as I would like to. (me ranting...) But everyone needs to live their own life and their own pace So, I hold nothing against anyone. Save One...

I was a lost cause, it took me a long time to get over a great person that I had wronged. After nearly a year of just looking out the front door and not getting involved with anything, and I mean anything. I would look out the front window, I would only go out to go to work, buy groceries and mow the lawn. LOL I was truly lost. Suzanne was really good about the divorce. She always took my calls when I was feeling low. She even stopped by and gave me money if I was a little shy of the APS bill (Electric) or Southwest gas or century link. She was such a good person and I crapped on our relationship.

Ugh... Try and live that one down (nice try).

So, I eventually weaned myself off of Suzanne, I I finally met someone new. on a dating site. Of all things. I hate dating sites, I mean I loath them. For all you readers out there you know what loath means. for all you non-readers (get yourself a thesaurus).

Anyways, I almost immediately fell in love, but I was guarded. This was someone from a dating site. Her name was Kathleen. She was a big girl. I'm not talking taller than me. I'm 6'1", she was big in the hips, the waist, her thighs. But I fell head over heals for her. Until she started to try to change me and my nature. I mat not be the best of people but, again, I would never hurt a woman and I never will. She had mesmerizing aora about her. She had a masters degree MBA and had worked in some of the most prestigious pleases in Manhattan NY. She had been with way more sexual partners than I had and was used to. It was a draw to her. I tried to end the relationship 3 times but to no avail.

The last time I told her that it was not a good match, My son let her in the front door and she came up behind me while I was listening (headphones on) to music and she tapped me on the shoulder and told me how much I needed her. That was the start of my downfall. I have fallen ever since, but I had my first date in months yesterday. With a wonderful woman named D-D Now, Kathleen was so mean that on Christmas of 2018 I was planning on staying home, not doing anything and had just bought myself a turkey hungry man dinner.

I was staying home. My right as an adult yes? Kathleen was injecting herself into my life. She moved in about 3 years ago, She lived in Surprise AZ. A Long journey for my worthless vehicle. But I was mesmerized but her beauty. She talked me into going with her to her daughter and future son in laws new house. I was enamored and said yes. I told them how much I liked their new house and after cooking (Yep, I'm a foodie) jumbo shrimp for everyone meaning everyone in her immediate family. Het oldest daughter, her future son in law and her youngest daughter, I went out in the back yard to have a smoke, thank the lord for all he has done for me, showing me the proper path to take.

Five minutes after I was out side, Her children (her children!!!) sent her out to apologize to me. HUH? what, yep she was sent out to apologize to me from her children. For being so mean to me. Can you imagine the life I had to endure when no one was around. Her children saved me. She left me for the last 4 months now but the longer she stays away from me, the more I realize that my first instincts were the best. I believe that our nature is what we are. I don't think people can change their nature. They can change their clothes, plastic surgery can change their face, boobs, take weight off of them. But their nature... I've never seen it. Sorry but no.

If you are a mean person, you will probably be mean until the day you die. If you are a nice person, you will be bowled over in this world. Last Year 2018, I got into an argument with Kathleen about something stupid. I mentioned that I wanted to call her ex-husband and ask him if this was the reason he left her? Or was it the reason She left him. Maybe, someone was onto her and I was her latest victim. Sounds like I am trying to reason huh? Nope, I was brutally physically hit several times.

I DON'T hit women. I was told I was an alcoholic, a lazy ass, a molester in bed. Kathleen Norton woke me up a week before she left to tell me that someone was on my brothers property and their dog was taking a crap on the lawn. I yelled at the new neighbor for doing this. (I have 1 minute of waking up) so yes, I yelled at her, but I was following orders from Kathleen. After a brief but non-necessary conversation, I walked back into my house where I was beaten again. (Slugged in my shoulders and glancing off my shoulders to my head). All true. I'm not sure why seem to love the people that are so bad for us!

OK, here's my story. I started going out with a woman six years ago. (We'll call her Kathleen) She found me on POF (Plenty of Fish) her profile was a silhouette, meaning she did not have a picture of herself online. So, she sent me pictures of her. But I was married at the time.

My wife of 30 years (we got married young) was from Denmark, We'll call her Suzanne, a red head. But the last 3 years of our marriage was marred in (my fault, I blame me for this) an affair on my end. (Only once but that will take the trust out of a relationship) so, the last three years of our marriage she would go out on Friday night and come back saturday morning Then go out Saturday night and come back Sunday morning.

She would walk through the door in the morning and I would say "WTF? WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL NIGHT?" But I realize that you can't tell someone that is over the age of 18 what do say, think or feel, they are a legal adult. I don't hit women, in fact I have never hit a woman.

Our kids were subject to this display for three years. Maybe she was getting even, I don't know. I just knew that if she wanted to get even she had done so 10 fold. The only reason she left our house was when I confronted her one morning in front of the kids and said "You are not just hurting me, you are hurting them as well and I pointed to the kids, and teaching them how to follow in your shoes" That she understood! She promptly moved out the next day. She was a good woman and I will always love her.

She filed for separation that year and finally a divorce, two years ago. I remember that she moved in with my mother We'll call her Diane. But my mother doesn't put up with crap and told her she can live there if she gets a job. She did for two weeks. She didn't work again and after 3 months of loafing around Diane threw her out. From there she moved in with my oldest daughter and my son. My youngest daughter still lived with me. My oldest daughter moved out to her own apartment leaving the two bedroom apartment to my ex-wife and my son.

I hold nothing against my ex-wife. Suzanne gave me three beautiful, gorgeous kids that I love to death and nearly 30 years of great sex, love, healing and someone in my corner. Even if I don't see kids as much as I would like to. (me ranting...) But everyone needs to live their own life and their own pace So, I hold nothing against anyone. Save One...

I was a lost cause, it took me a long time to get over a great person that I had wronged. After nearly a year of just looking out the front door and not getting involved with anything, and I mean anything. I would look out the front window, I would only go out to go to work, buy groceries and mow the lawn. LOL I was truly lost. Suzanne was really good about the divorce. She always took my calls when I was feeling low. She even stopped by and gave me money if I was a little shy of the APS bill (Electric) or Southwest gas or century link. She was such a good person and I crapped on our relationship.

Ugh... Try and live that one down (nice try).

So, I eventually weaned myself of Suzanne, I I finally met someone new. on a dating site. Of all things. I hate dating sites, I mean I loath them. for all you readers out there you know what loath means. for all you non-readers (get yourself a thesaurus).

Anyways, I almost immediately fell in love, but I was guarded. This was someone from a dating site. Her name was Kathleen. She was a big girl. I'm not talking taller than me. I'm 6'1", she was big in the hips, the waist, her thighs. But I fell head over heals for her. Until she started to try to change me and my nature. I mat not be the best of people but, again, I would never hurt a woman and I never will. She had mesmerizing orah about her. She had a masters degree MBA and had worked in some of the most prestigious places in Manhattan NY. She had been with way more sexual partners than I had and was used to. It was a draw to her. I tried to end the relationship 3 times but to no avail.

The last time I told her that it was not a good match, My son let her in the front door and she came up behind me while I was listening (headphones on) to music and she tapped me on the shoulder and told me how much I needed her. That was the start of my downfall. I have fallen ever since, but I had my first date in months yesterday. With a wonderful woman named D-D. Now, Kathleen was so mean that on Christmas of 2018 I was planning on staying home, not doing anything and had just bought myself a turkey hungry man dinner.

I was staying home. My right as an adult yes? regardless , Kathleen had injected herself into my life. She moved in about 3 years ago, She lived in Surprise AZ. A Long journey for my worthless vehicle. But I was mesmerized but her beauty. She talked me into going with her to her daughter and future son in laws new house. I was enamored and said yes. I told them how much I liked their new house and after cooking (Yep, I'm a foodie) jumbo shrimp for everyone meaning everyone in her immediate family. Het oldest daughter, her future son in law and her youngest daughter, I went out in the back yard to have a smoke, thank the lord for all he has done for me, showing me the proper path to take.

Five minutes after I was out side, Her children (her children!!!) sent her out to apologize to me. HUH? what, yep she was sent out to apologize to me from her children. For being so mean to me. Can you imagine the life I had to endure when no one was around. Her children saved me. She left me for the last 4 months now but the longer she stays away from me, the more I realize that my first instincts were the best. I believe that our nature is what we are. I don't think people can change their nature. They can change their clothes, plastic surgery can change their face, boobs, take weight off of them. But their nature... I've never seen it. Sorry but no.

If you are a mean person, you will probably be mean until the day you die. If you are a nice person, you will be bowled over in this world. Last Year 2018, I got into an argument with Kathleen about something stupid. I mentioned that I wanted to call her ex-husband and ask him if this was the reason he left her? Or was it the reason She left him. Maybe, someone was onto her and I was her latest victim. Sounds like I am trying to reason huh? Nope, I was brutally physically hit several times.

I DON'T hit women. I was told I was an alcoholic, a lazy ass, a molester in bed. Kathleen Norton woke me up a week before she left to tell me that someone was on my brothers property and their dog was taking a crap on the lawn. I yelled at the new neighbor for doing this. (I have 1 minute of waking up) so yes, I yelled at her, but I was following orders from Kathleen. After a brief but non-necessary conversation, I walked back into my house where I was beaten again. (Slugged in my shoulders and glancing off my shoulders to my head). All true.

About a week after the incident I saw my neighbor weeding her front yard. I went up and apologized to her. I extended my hand in good faith but she pushed it away and gave me a hug instead. I told her how sorry I was for saying the things I did. But I protect the people I love in my life with everything I have. I turned around and there standing outside my front door was Kathleen, head down, arms crossed and tapping a shoe.

Sounds like a rambling huh? Nope, I can prove it all! For some strange reason, I kept all the texts I was sent on my cell. I am now something I never wanted to be. A guarded person!

PS, if you read this and respond to me, I will always respond to you!

Dennis H, Phoenix, AZ