CFNM - or Clothed Female, Nude Male encounters can be a fun way to play and it comes with the added bonus of being about as safe as sex can get these days. There are various ways to find such encounters. Adult dating sites will give you the opportunity to meet sexually adventurous women who enjoy the power of CFNM, so if it’s something you’re interested in, don’t hesitate to mention it in your profile.

A CFNM encounter can take several forms. It can be a one on one thing, or it could be a group activity (which can be a real rush). Sometimes it is strictly a look but don’t touch situation, while other times your partners may touch you or themselves, tease you visually and physically, or there may be discipline and/or humiliation games involved. Because everyone has their fantasies and preconceived ideas regarding what CFNM is all about, I recommend you set the ground rules right from the start, so everyone involved knows what to expect. It’s also a good idea only to play these games with people you have at least some trust in, because you will be in a vulnerable state, so someone with the wrong intentions can turn a really good experience into a really bad one pretty quickly.

If you’re new to CFNM, I suggest you start with a one on one situation in a private setting. Basically, you get naked, while your partner stays fully dressed, even if fully dressed means something sexy. Then, she gets to call the shots. She might have you masturbate in front of her, she might have you bend over and then spank you, she might take pictures of you, or she might have you rub her feet or clean her windows. The not knowing what she’ll have you doing is a big part of the thrill.

If you’re really daring, you can give her the option of telling you where and when to get naked. Be careful though - although female public nudity is usually tolerated, male public nudity may not be. You don’t want to wind up getting arrested and convicted as a sex offender.

If you enjoy CFNM or are really uninhibited, a group encounter can be a lot of fun - especially if you’re the only man in the group! Being stark naked in front of a group of appreciative women can be an enormous turn-on. You could offer to do a naked waiter routine for your sex buddy and her friends - even if you work for free, the "tips" will make it all worthwhile.

Ultimately, the CFNM situation usually develops into the NFNM situation because all involved wind up getting too turned on to keep things under control. It’s all good though!