Do you wish to make his world ROCK in the bedroom and become his number ONE desire??

When it comes to spending time together in the bedroom, we generally believe that it is all on the men. It is commonly believed that a man wants sex more, and that a man should be the one responsible for everything in the bedroom.

Listen up ladies: it is very easy to become the type of woman that your lover will want to take to bed again and again. With just a few simple tricks, you can become the type of seductress that you have always dreamed about becoming.

1. Do Not Try To Be Who You Are Not

The first tip is to be who you are. All of us would love to be more like some of the strip tease artists that every man drools over. Unfortunately, not all of us are coordinated enough to be able to become strip-tease artists overnight.

This does not mean that you do not have the skills to keep your man hot and bothered for a long time, but you may not have the same skills that the many women you've seen have. Allow me to explain.

A friend of mine Christina had always wanted to learn how to belly dance. She ordered DVDs and took a few courses at the local gym. Unfortunately she discovered that she was unable to move her hips the way the instructors told her to.

She was very frustrated, until her husband came home and saw her dressed up in the belly dancing outfit. She saw his interest and started a slow strip-tease, which left him panting with desire.

We cannot all belly dance, or strip-tease, but we can all do something special that will leave our men looking at us as though we are a piece of prime rib. The trick is to find that something!

2. Experiment, experiment, experiment

Ladies, this is one area where men have most of us beaten. They love to experiment. It is very rare to find a man who wants to make love the same way every time.

Instead, you are more likely to find a man who wants to do things that he has read about or seen in adult films. Granted, you cannot do everything that you see, but why not be a bit more experimental?

Sit down and think about the things that you would be willing to try and the things that you absolutely would not be willing to try. Make a list! Write down some things that you never thought you'd do, because you may surprise yourself by suddenly being willing to try something you never dreamed you would do.

This is a great way to draw the line of things that you're sure you'd never enjoy, and things that you might enjoy.

The next step is to take it to your spouse. Go to them and tell them of the things you'd be interested in trying. Watch as their eyes get large and they drag you off into the bedroom to attempt some of the very things you've said you'd try.

A woman who is willing to experiment is something that every man dreams of, so if you want to make him really happy, give him a chance try something new.

3. Dominatrix?

Men like to be big tough guy, but here is a secret ladies: when it comes to the bedroom, every man wants a woman to take control occasionally.

It is true! Think of how you feel when a man lets his more barbaric nature come through occasionally. Don't you feel desired and wanted? A man loves when a woman takes over in the bedroom for the exact same reasons.

They love it when a woman will push them down onto the bed and will rip their pants off. A woman who can start, and keep, the momentum going in bed is a very valuable commodity.

This does not mean that you have to become a dominatrix. A dominatrix is someone who punishes men. There are some men who enjoy punishment, but a woman taking charge in the bedroom does not mean she is a dominatrix, but merely is a way to show her man how much she desires him!

Keep a man happy in the bedroom should not be your first concern. After all, relationships take work and time and a lot more than sex. The bedroom, however, can be a great place to show your lover how you feel about them.

So the next time you drag your lover off to bed, put your whole heart and body into it. I guarantee that he'll be dreaming about the experience for a long time to come.