How wonderful to be able to express just how you are feeling in your heart to the wedded couple in a well put together wedding speech. To give a speech in front of a crowd for some people can be likened to standing in front of a firing squad without a blindfold. A wedding speech need not be a terrible ordeal for the giver of the speech, if done properly it can be great.

The person giving the speech is affected by all this as well as the guests at the wedding who are held at the reception. Being prepared is the key where you can turn what would be a dismal wedding reception time into a lot of fun that will be remembered for a long time; as long as you have a decently written speech and you give it well.

And here's the hangup. Trying to get a decent speech into words, is very hard for most people. A good delivery depends totally on how well you write the wedding speech because even if you are a good writer, if the way it is written doesn't sound like your style then it won't fly.

How to take care of this dilemma can be a simple matter if you just think about it a minute and then check out internet sources that would have software you could download and get the help you need to write your wedding speeches, or get a speech already written, or maybe use the abilities of a professional writer.

Many of us will resort to one or more of these methods to end up with the perfect specimen of wedding speeches; but the simplest method would be to have a person who is a writer by profession do the work for you and then let you pick the final draft that sounds the most like you speaking normally.

Once you have received your wedding speech, get familiar with it by practicing it over and over until you know it like the back of your hand, and you will impress the wedding audience with your wonderful speech giving prowess and they will be talking about your speech for a long time.

If you have a small card with you that you can refer to with a few notations on it while you are giving your wedding speech, then you can keep yourself on track.

When you are asked suddenly to change your wedding speech around to accommodate another speech giver at the wedding, just do so without a problem and keep on going with confidence. Your awareness of just how able you are to give a speech well, comes from deep down in your heart. Most importantly, be yourself in all things. All will be well if you remain true to your own feelings.