Insight To Why Men Leave

If your relationship is going so great, then why do men leave? HealthyRelationship The truth is that

Men and women leave relationships after years of marriage because they suddenly realize the person they thought they couldn’t live without, barely knows them at all. So why wait until they figure it out and leave you.

Through extensive research it appears from a mans point of view that he walks away because he does not feel valued. When it comes down to real feelings a man may not say much, but he feels things deeper than most women realize. Many studies have concluded that it all begins with how a mans parents have taught him to view what is normal.

If we start at the beginning for a male, it all comes down to a boy needs his father to be someone he can look up too. Through this special bond a son will absorb his fathers behavior and have a need to have his approval. This is a crucial part of his identity and it will in the end have a Hugh influence on how he develops from boyhood into manhood.

If a sons needs are not meant in a positive constructive way, the consequences can become earth shattering and the young man becomes off balance and unable to cope with true loving relationships.

When men do not have good role models they have trouble understanding the true concept of love. They begin to question anyone that tries to open them up emotionally because they do not want to feel the pain or disappoint of how they really feel. This often causes men to fight and argue with women to show they care. This ends the relationship eventually because continual arguing and fighting only creates negative behavior that goes no where..

Some men try to escape the love roller coaster by taking on a mind set of never growing up and becoming an adult. This way their life can be full of fun, adventure, and no responsibilities. It may sound good, but it never gives anyone what they truly need. Love is powerful but it takes work to get it right. Everyone of us wants it, but the happy and fulfilled ones are willing to work on it and do what ever it takes to make it a part of who they are.

Relationships will always come and go and the finger pointing will never end. But real love and true friendships begin with being true to yourself, letting your partner and friends do the same, and showing the respect that we all need to grow and fulfill our destiny. It’s not rocket science, but it is a door you have to open to truly enjoy the gift.