Do not get depressed after a breakup. Sure you feel sad and unable to reorient yourself with the thought that she might be gone completely in your life. Shake yourself up! You need to take a look at yourself and learn to control your anxieties. After all, you are the same person that your woman loved before. It’s just that there may some differences that need to be sorted out and there may some problems that have to be solved. You have got your intelligence and your charm with you so you just need to muster courage to win her back.

In addition to this, you need to identify the mistakes that guys do in trying to win back their beloved. A lot of men throughout history have tried this so do not go out there and try everything through trial and error. By learning from the experiences of other men, you can avoid these mistakes and you can win her back.

The first mistake in trying to win her back is the attempt to buy her love. You can send her tons after tons of flowers or go to the Middle East to buy expensive jewelry only to find out that these are not what she wants from you. Love is not spelled as M-O-N-E-Y, rather it is spelled with quality T-I-M-E. Hence, if you want her back, you need to display affection and spend time with her. She might accept all of your gifts yet she might not accept you because you would not want to spend more time with her.

A lot of guys tend to assure their girl that they will change. Although these men may be well-meaning, the source of attraction on the part of the woman is rarely a result of logical choice. Hence, if you have lost your girl, you need to re-create the situations that led her to become attracted to you. You need to become romantic again and woo her.

You can never win her back by begging and pleading. Men have tried that, they have even threatened suicide but no, this rarely works if you are trying to win her back. If you feel and even look like it’s the end of the world, then your girl will just lose her attraction to you because she will perceive how weak your personality is. Instead, show that you are standing tall after the break up and show her that you want her back. Such a display of confidence will help you win her back.

By avoiding the mistakes outline above and sincerely pursuing your girl, she will be yours again in no time at all.