Business is business, and a man who is constantly traveling leaves his family and woman behind as he tackles that next job. The man who is traveling for a living can find that the life on the road is very lonely and he will call home or at least write home as often as possible. There are many situations where calling home is not going to be an option because you will be in different time zones, and calling can be expensive. Situations also exist where a man is involved with a client for ten and twelve hours a day making it extremely difficult to call home and touch base with the woman of his life.

A relationship is going to suffer when a man is traveling, leaving the woman at home. You must make your needs known to your man in order to ‘continually survive’ what is happening in the relationship. It will be important that the man spends all his free time at least trying to get in contact with you. If you don’t tell your man how lonely you are when he is away, he may not even realize there is a break down in the marriage and he will not be ‘trying’ to rebuild those bridges while he is traveling. Simply sitting down with your man and telling him your feelings is going to be a good start in rebuilding your marriage. Constant traveling doesn’t have to be the end of a marriage, it could be the beginning of a new stronger relationship as you learn to talk and communicate again.

What Can I Do To Keep The Relationship Alive?

Keeping the relationship alive is a long process, one that is going to take place over the years of your marriage. This is not a process, that just those who are separated by continents and business are going to have to go through, but it is a part of every relationship and every marriage. The marriage is a commitment to each other that you will continually have to work at, even if he is working at or near the home.

To keep the relationship alive you can send him a message to his hotel. Telling him you miss him, and that he should call. Keep surprises happening in the relationship so he knows you are thinking about him, and about him being away as these are important steps in a relationship. As he is thinking more about you, he will be more likely to pick up the phone and say hello. Other little things you can do include putting a note in his briefcase that he will be taking with him.

Give him a little note that you are so proud of him and how hard he is working. Leave him a message in his suitcase that you will be wearing his shirt until he comes home again. Leave him little surprises in his baggage, such as a bra that is covered in your perfume so he will think more about you while he is gone. The little things in life, that don’t have to cost anything, are going to be messages to your man about your love for him. He can’t miss you if you don’t make it a point to be missed!

What Can I Say or Not Say To Him So He Will Understand My Needs?

One thing that you can bring up and say to your man is that you miss him. When he does call, make it a point to listen to him, and to be attentive. Don’t be yelling at the children, or tell him you have to go fast. Always be receptive to the time he takes to call you. Avoid being distracted no matter what the cost when he calls. Tell him you are so happy to hear from him, and that you wish he were home. The more a man realizes he is missed and loved; the more often he will call home while traveling. A man that doesn’t feel appreciated is not going to call home often, because he will think you are too busy to talk with him. A strong relationship is one that is trusting. Avoid asking what women are in the company. Avoid asking who is talking in the background of your phone call.

Avoid saying anything that will jeopardize him calling again while he is away. While this may sound like you are tiptoeing around you are not really. The man who is traveling wants a supportive wife at home. A man who is traveling wants to be trusted and wants to trust his woman is faithful while she is at home as well. If you make accusations about him sleeping around or not paying enough attention to you, he will run ‘that way’ thinking you must be ‘running around’ on him or why else would you be accusing him of doing that.

Trust your man while he is traveling and working. Give him little things in life that show him how much you care and support him. The change in him will occur over time as he realizes just how much you look forward to him coming home. For example, meet him at he airport when he least expects it. Have something sent to his room while he is out of town, as these are all things that show you care and love him without having to track him down and ask him details of who and what he did today while he is away.