Have you ever sat down and flashed back how it used to be when you were in your first days of dating? The force was so driving and the love so intact that you could not afford to go for a day without seeing each other. You possibly could not dream and imagine how love in your marriage would be and you longed for the day you would be legally joined together and be given a go ahead. You used to find peace when you were together and the union of your marriage was all you thought of. I wonder what happens when couples are joined together and officially allowed to share a roof. The strong feelings they used to have towards one another wears out and the desire fades away. They no longer value the drive that brought them together.

People are different and with different personalities, simply because of the nature of creation. The fact that you are joined up doesn't mean that you share the same ideas and opinions. Different opinions may lead to slight differences in marriage because people living together are bound to collide once in a while. This is meant to strengthen the bond between the two loved ones. To strengthen the bond of love in your marriage, you need to learn from and understand each other. Possessiveness may lead to boredom and lose of taste for each other, as we know too much of anything is poisonous. You need to spend sometime away from one another and have time to learn and share with other people. After the whole day activities and exposure you will definitely have so much to share with your spouse and you will possibly not exhaust all day stories. This will help you to live long in love and strengthen the bond of love in your marriage.

Doesn't it sound and feel boring when you work in the same office, go for lunch together and drive home together? This monotony can slowly kill the love in your marriage and make the company of each other boring. The love in your marriage wears out and it no longer exists what remains is routine in marriage. Time apart is the way out to solve this problem, take a week, a month or a holiday away from your spouse. Take time to meet people with different ideas, interests and opinions even from opposite sex. By the time you are back you will have missed your partner and you will have a lot to tell. This will strengthen and rebuild love in your marriage and lead it to greater height.

If you like adventure and you are outgoing you can visit club for singles and interact with them. By doing this, it will give you all the reason to appreciate your spouse and rediscover the precious treasure hidden in him/her. You will never miss your water until your well runs dry. You will meet people of different characters, some who even get worked up at the slightest provocation whereas your partner has never pointed a finger at you yet you don't consider him patient. By the time you will be back, you will have increased the power of love in your marriage.