Do you think your spouse is cheating? Before accusing, it is best to have solid proof. The problem is that this proof can be difficult to obtain. You do not want to accuse someone without having proof!

Have you recently been questioning the loyalty of your partner? Perhaps you have been noticing things that have been occurring that seem terribly suspicious? Maybe even a part of you knows that your partner is cheating on you, but you just cannot convince yourself to believe it.

Please don't focus on suspicion, it will tear you apart.

Unfortunately obtaining solid proof is easier said then done. Fortunately I have the proven steps that will get you on the right track:

1. Calm down

At this point you have a strong suspicion that your partner is cheating. This is a very upsetting thing to think about. When you think about this, you probably aren't feeling very rational which is a problem. You want to be as calm as possible if you are going to try to get to the bottom of what is happening here.

2. Prepare yourself

Before you start digging, you need to remember that you very well may find proof that your partner is cheating. Are you ready for that?

3. Be patient

Proof isn't going to pop up the second you start looking for it. It takes time. And if you push too hard, your partner may become suspicious and then it will be even harder to catch him or her.

4. Choose an effective tool to catch him or her

Fortunately there are many tools available that aid in the capture of cheaters. The problem is that many of them are not very good. You will want to make sure that you find one that is going to actually work. I highly recommend getting a book written by a professional on catching cheaters, and software that is designed specifically to catch them. I have a recommendation on a product that actually does both.

5. Move forward

Once you have proof that your spouse is cheating, you will need to decide what your next step is. Do you think your relationship is worth saving? Only you know that, but please take some time to think about everything before taking your next step.