Whenever a split occurs you feel miserable and down for days and even weeks after. You need to get your girl back and you can't stop dreaming about her. Does she still care? What things can you do to get back in her radar again and get that second opportunity you've been passing so much time thinking about? So far everything you've tried has been unsuccessful.

Don't worry, she's not gone yet. Don't be deterred because your first few efforts have not worked. Below are some tips that will help you get her back. Some of these can be hard or difficult to follow, but they are proven to work and increase your chances of being reunited with your ex girlfriend again.

Whether you think you're right or wrong in whatever controversy caused the break up you need to give her a devout apology. You may think you have already done this, but it may not have worked because your ex girlfriend didn't think you sincerely meant what you said. You need to acknowledge what you're going to say or have an outline in your head of what you plan to say prior to giving her an apology as well. This will make the risk for surprising outbursts go down to a minimum. Those can lead to fights that will only make it tougher to get her back and push her away.

You need to keep your cool and uphold your composure when talking with your ex. The last impression you want to have is to make her think you're desperate and clingy. She wants a guy to be confident, self-assured, and who feels good about himself. This was the type of guy she fell for the first time though and can easily fall for him once again if you can just bring that back out of you. Until you can speak to her without misplacing your calmness you need to keep clear of your ex.

Finally, a way you can amplify all of the above when you meet and talk with your ex girlfriend is to improve and care about your appearance. This also points out you are confident and you'll be seeping the self-confidence you'll need to make her pay attention to you. I understand fashion may not be your thing, but your ex girlfriend will definitely notice the change. You don't have to go overboard with the makeover, but wear some nicer clothes, change your hair style up a bit, whatever feels within your comfort zone. Looking good is a neat way to set the foundation for restoring your confidence and to help you keep composure when you do talk to her.