Though trust takes time to be built within two people, it takes a very little time to destroy it. You do something little and your partner can no longer trust you with anything. You can sometimes try to hard to gain their trust but never gain it again. Yet trust is such an important element in a good relationship that without trust the good relationship will be filled with too many suspicions. If your partner for example told you they were going out,if you do not trust them, no matter how many times they say they are just going to hang out with the boys or the girls you are not going to believe it. Here is how to gain lost trust or keep your partner trusting you.

Do not lie to your partner. As much as you think there are some things that are better off told as a lie, you shouldn't. Every time you lie to your partner you give them a reason not to trust you again. People have been known to lie through the phone, it is actually an easy medium to lie because your partner is not looking at you. The phones have brought with it so much joy but with it good relationships have also been shattered. The phones in my view have contributed equally to our partners not trusting us. When you lie through the phone your partner might still find you out and they will not trust you again. Resist the urge to lie over the phone, be it giving the wrong position of where you are or what you are doing at the moment. Tell the truth always

If you want your partner to trust you in your good relationship, do not keep reminding them that what they did was wrong and that they hurt you a lot. You might want to use their guilt and to make them feel more guilty so that they become nice to you but there is a degree of blame that our partners can take. And anyway, too much of something is poisonous. So they did something wrong, get over it and forget it. Do not keep reminding your partner of things that they did in the past that really hurt you. You will only be pushing them away and they will not trust you enough next time to tell you something they did, reason being you will only keep referring back.

If you want your partner to trust you in a good relationship, you should share some personal information with them. If you do not tell your partner things about you, they might interpret this as you are not really interested in them and they will not trust you in return enough to tell you things that affect them in their day to day life. You give trust to someone, they will give it back to, but that will only work if you also imply to them that you can be a person to be trusted by not repeating what they told you in confidence to someone else.