There are some things women do that are great mistakes in any relationship. Enough times they have even done this without thinking too much about it. The men on the other hand think the women do this deliberately and their reason for leaving. For a long time now, men have been viewed as sexual being which is true. But when you are in a relationship with them do not concentrate in having sex. That the only time you get to bond is when you are making love. That is wrong and a big mistake on the woman's part. Within the first weeks of a relationship, a woman would want to have a sex with her mate thinking that after the act, the two of them would become closer. However, they get surprised when the man leaves. Am not saying you should ignore his sexual urges, you should also consider his other needs.

Women have been led to believe that men do not like a woman who is independent. Which is true to a certain degree. A man would not want to be with a woman who is too independent. They give them an impression that they are not needed. A man would like to have a say in the relationship, and if possible provide for his girl and family. But if you let him feel like without him you cannot survive, you will only push him away. Do not be very needy to the extent that you can do nothing for the betterment of that relationship. If everything is up to him, he will get bored with you faster than you can imagine.

Do not make your man feel that you are so insecure about the relationship. It is okay to be insecure about some things, but if the level of insecurity that you feel is great to the extent that you check his things and you even have his computer password, he will definitely leave you. Once in a while you can express your insecurity and explain to him what he does that makes you feel insecure but keep your insecurities to a minimum. Be confident. Men love women who are confident and sure of themselves. Actually, when you are confident, you have a certain glow that comes out of you that makes you feel and look beautiful.

When you go out with your man, do not be too touchy. Sometimes women do this to make sure that the other women around get the picture that the man is taken. However, this is a great turn off to men and a great injury to the relationship. It will not be before they never want to go out with you again. But that will not be the only problem, they will want to break up with you. Avoid being touchy with your man. You might think you are doing great but you are not. Lastly, avoid basing your love in the physical attraction of a person, it will only end with a heart break.