Have you ever had a crush? Come on lets be honest. Crushes are pretty much normal. Every one of us has at least had a crush at one particular time or another. As we grow old, the number of times we have crushes gradually fades. That means that at one time or another you might be confronted with another crush and you had better be prepared to deal with it. You can say you have a crush on someone if you find yourself wanting to spend a lot of time with him or her, everything they do seem to be smart or nice even if it is not, or you have a big interest in someone. Some crushes go right ahead and develop into some good relationship while other develop into an obsession that is not good.

Regardless of what people say, you should let the person you have a crush on know about it. Believe it or not, after letting your heart out, you will feel much better and the pressure you were feeling before telling them will disappear. You will stop sweating whenever they are around, knocking everything down and simply going speechless whenever they pass around. You have to admit these are very awkward feeling to carry around and the faster you can get rid of it the better. Whatever the person you have a crush on says or does after you tell them should not worry you. It could actually help you get over them if they went ahead and brushed you off or asked you to stay away or it could lead to a wonderful relationship with them.

You can also ask the person out. It is important that you get to know the person and the best way to do this is to go out with them. Choose a nice place that you can be able to converse. People love intelligent people and good conversationalist. If you have the two combinations, make use of them and charm your date to liking you. When you are out with them, do not do something crazy that will make them run away from you. Just like any other first date, do not get drunk or be late in picking them up or arriving at the agreed place. Keep time and dress decently. Try to make them like you too and get into a relationship with you.

Finally be yourself. It is a crush and you are bound to act weird but try as much as possible to act normal. He or She is a normal person with feeling just like you and me. You love them and most probably obsessed about them. But do not over do it and in turn drive them away so that everytime they see you they make a run for it. Treat him or her like you would treat any other person or your friends. Do not make it hard for them to approach you. You can never know, the feeling might be mutual. If you act and sound disinterested when you are around your crush, you will drive him or her to detest you. Remember, there are crushes that can lead to wonderful relationships, so be nice.