Look, just because he broke it off with you doesn't mean that he no longer loves you. Did you know that when most relationships end, the first month is critical in winning your Ex boyfriend back? I went through the same pain and anguish that you yourself are probably going through right now, but I can tell you right now, that I have some good news for you!

You see, the most important part about getting your Ex boyfriend back is not going completely psycho when it happens! Unfortunately, most women go off the deep end when this happens. What you need to realize is that this exactly what he expects and exactly what you should not do! The first thing you need to do is play it cool and when he utters those painful words, "I need a break." You should by all means remain as calm as possible and look him straight in the eyes and just say, okay.

That in itself will throw him of balance and set you in the right direction in having your Ex boyfriend want you back. If the break up already happened and you broke down and cried and begged for him not too, well I am going to show you how to get him back anyway. And he won't even know what hit him.

You see, most women do exactly the wrong thing that makes their Ex boyfriend to want to stay away even more. The begging, the continuous calling and leaving voice mails crying and begging for him to take you back. Don't do it. If you are, stop right there and start doing these things instead.

Let it be know that you do want your Ex boyfriend back, but in a subtle way. If you friends or his friends ask you, just say yes. But, also let it be known that you alright with it and just go about your business. Have fun with your friends. Go out to parties, the movies or whatever. Be seen around where people realize that you are not all broken up about it.

Before too long, your Ex boyfriend will start asking his friends or your friends how you are doing. You see, most guys start to think that maybe they were wrong in breaking up with you. If you seem needy or emotionally distraught, they will more than likely stay away. But, if you show them the complete opposite your Ex boyfriend will start to wonder if maybe he mad a mistake once he sees that you are not demoralized. Guys are funny that way. If you do the opposite of what they expect, they end up coming back.

So do yourself a favor. Try some of these tips I have shared with you in helping you get your Ex boyfriend back. It sure worked for me.