Do you know the right words to make your girlfriend stay with you or win her back? Does it seem like every time you say something she pulls further away? What are the right words for her to stay and love you? For men, this can be so frustrating but there is hope. Would it surprise you to know that nine little words (one sentence) can be the difference between having her in your arms and watch her walk away.

What is it this sentence that you should say? "I am OK with your decision to break up."

It would seem that saying this means she can leave on good terms and you can stay friends. That, of course, is the last thing you wish to do. However, not saying it could do you more harm, why is that?

Women are strange beings to men. Why would this sentence be so important? Believe it or not, women want men to want them. They want you to plead with them to stay and they want you to miss them. By telling them this sentence, it shakes their confidence that you won’t miss them. Eventually, she’ll come to you to bring her ego back up, which means you win her back. You should decide how to handle things so things don’t go from bad to worse.

Once you say these words, the effect could be instantaneous or it may take up to a month before she reacts. You have already done what you can by saying your part. Sooner or later there will be a resolution, good or bad.

When using those words to win her back, there are two things to keep in mind.

• You need to mean them.

• She needs to be in a good mood or the right frame of mind to hear you say them.

If you don’t mean the words you say, what you said is liable to backfire if she should call your trick. It may be hard to use this sentence when the possibility of breaking up is there. Before you say it, make sure you refocus your intent to win her back and get into the frame of mind and keep a straight face when you are telling her.

If this is a woman you really want to be with, then letting her come to you before you spring it on her is best. Should you just blurt it out to her by phone, the result is not nearly powerful enough. Give your ex some space and time after this. Before you know it, she’ll be calling you, wanting to talk about the relationship.

By saying this one sentence, you are able to win her back into your arms. Anything after this is all up to you. How you handle the whole thing will decide if she will stay or if she will go. The power behind those words is amazing because it seems like such a straightforward approach.