Ask anyone how much sex is too much and how little is too little and you will be surprised at the kind of answers you will get. The answers are as varied as the people in this world. Many people have their own perception of how much is too much and vise versa. Someone should come up with what is too little. There are people who have ended their relationship and the bold ones if asked always said there was too much sex or too little sex involved that kept pushing them away. Little by little they could not take it anymore for their partners and the best they could do is to find someone they were compatible with.

A survey was recently carried out where a group of women representing various groups and age groups were sampled. Some of the women were married some of them were singles, while others were young and old. They were then divided into two, a group that filled the questionnaires and one that were involved in discussing things concerning sex. The women in both groups were generally agreed that having sex at least three to four times a week was what they would consider to be okay. Anything less than that would be considered to be less sex and anything more than is too much sex. However, there are women who said they would have sex everyday and other who thought once a week was just enough for them.

The survey was also carried on the male counter parts and the women did not fall far below them. It was averagely found that the men considered having sex four to five times a week is what they could consider to be enough sex. However, there are men who said they could have sex the whole year round and still not have enough of it. However there are others who thought they could have sex once a week and still be okay with it. The men were generally found to be more sexually active and are also more likely to initiate sex. So does this mean that men love and enjoy sex than their female friends? That is up to you to decide.

The question still remains, just how much sex is too much and how little of it is too little. The sex therapist are in general agreement that people should have sex at least once after every two weeks. They are the experts and maybe we should consider them, but the results indicate something else that maybe we need to follow. However, people are different and what you consider to be enough of you could be falling short of the other person's. Once you meet with your partner, you should discuss about sex. Do not shy away from the topic. Those who could not talk about sex have been known to have broken relationships. It is always good to know what your partner is looking for in a relationship and how many times they would rather have sex in the relationship.