Who amongst you girls has never wondered what exactly the man she was having a relationship with or at least interested in was saying when he said something? Anyone? I thought so, everyone has at least wondered what the man was really saying and if not, they just stopped wondering because they gave up because they could not figure him out. However, you need to stop wondering and understand you man today. When he says you are a good person, you had better hold that hug long enough, this is because the man does not intend to come any where near you ever again. Men do not like hurting people contrary to what we think and he had rather lie than be confronted with a tantrum that is so typical of some women.

If the man in the relationship suddenly calls and says he wants to see you, you are better of carrying yourself some protective gear. The poor guy is not really missing you as he said he is, he probably hasn't had sex for such a long time and you meeting with him will give him some little of that. And if you have been meeting for sometime and he makes this known to you he is probably saying that he thinks it is a little strange that you have been meeting and you have not yet had sex. To him, it is about time you got down to business and business here is to have sex.

If the man asks you to bring some of your things into his house so as to make your sleep overs at his place easy,he is probably saying he would like for you to move in with him and have a more serious relationship. He might be very scared of telling you this point blank incase you reject him. But when he says you are seeing each other, that is if he is telling a friend, you had better watch out. This means that you should not get too comfortable with him. There is another woman that is involved and you are better of not being too attached to him lest you get hurt. Being a 'gentleman' that he is, he cannot tell you that he is cheating on you. He silently hopes that you know it and that you will still love him and want to be with him.

If the guy teases you a lot to the point that you feel he doesn't like you relax, hold your horses before you tell him you hate him too and ruin a great relationship. The guy loves you and he is only teasing you to have fun with you. There is no harm in teasing the object of his desire. Take all the teases he throws your way nice, knowing that he really loves you. If you ask the guy to do something and he says later, stick to his later. He might never do it, simply because he feels he is being disturbed or he is not interested in doing it. But if the man say i will do it, he will definitely do it. Let this be the last time you miss understood your man. Love them as they are.